I think dad has dementia.

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one friend stayed in her home and if theres a disabled child living there they can't count the home as assets to pay for care, but you burt i think have rather burnt your bridges on that
 
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one friend stayed in her home and if theres a disabled child living there they can't count the home as assets to pay for care, but you burt i think have rather burnt your bridges on that
because i am working? I am fine with that. If we had to sell the home, I would get by on my own
 
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I came home to find dad still in his bedroom. He also has made a mess. Believe me it was hard getting those bedsheets while he refused to move. :rofl2:

Anyway they are in the wash now, and he is still up there. I am chilling with a cold beer before part 2!
 
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I came home to find dad still in his bedroom. He also has made a mess. Believe me it was hard getting those bedsheets while he refused to move. :rofl2:

Anyway they are in the wash now, and he is still up there. I am chilling with a cold beer before part 2!
you are a wonderful son to him, burt :grouphug:
 
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Thanks dear :D

Well Part 2 is done. I have cleaned up mess part 2 (as much as poss). He is now wearing a nappy on his bed. I have taken the washing in and hung some more out. Optional part 3 is to put some sheets on. maybe i will just do his duvet for tonight.
 
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Hi Burt,
It's hard work caring for someone, make sure you get some rest to.
Take care
 
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I had to change his nappy again. Anyway I put a pad over the mattress, and fixed his duvet. He is all set for the night too.

I tried to give him his meds, but he will not sit up to take them. I have tried my best tonight. phew.
 
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Dad's nappy looks dry this morning. He said he will go downstairs later. I hope so, he did not eat yesterday. I need to put on a fresh nappy every day i think.
 
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Bro is over for the night. But he has just been walking around the house. I don't think he has actually done anything practical apart from get some toilet rolls for the bathroom.

I did the chores, and got dads bed in order. Will have to put a nappy on him tonight tho. Also need to tidy the kitchen. meh.
 
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