I think dad has dementia.

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Good news of a sort.

I hope that your dad gets some improvement in his mobility from the therapy - that would help everyone.
 
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Good news of a sort.

I hope that your dad gets some improvement in his mobility from the therapy - that would help everyone.
Yes it would. I miss dad, but TBH it is nice to have the house to myself for a few days. Hopefully he will be improved when he comes home eventually. :)
 
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is it northwick park hospital, it's now the local a and e for my area and has a bad reputation, my neighbour gets a taxi to the one in paddington, i don't know if it applies to harrow

the gauardian played an extract of some guy complaining about northwick park and been called a racist by this radio chat show host, thought the radio guy probably pays to go private, the state of the nhs isn't a concern of his
 
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The NHS has a lot of talented staff, but IMO the organisation could be improved. It would make sense to have a national plan for all trusts, rather than let them run themselves.

For example, with integration, we could have the same solution in all trusts. I think it would be simpler and more efficient.
 
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yes but improvement and reorganisation are used as a cover for cuts, you only have to look at the dismantleing of the welfare state and the torys have their eye on the nhs
 
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Any private firm would have a top down approach to all it's branches. For example each Costa branch does not have it's own individual menu. It is a standard across all of them. Makes sense for the NHS to do the same.
 
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We went to see dad in hospital today. The doc thinks he has had a heart attack at some point. I am not sure, but thems the bosses :salut:

He seemed okay. I asked them to get rid of the wax in his ears since he can't hear very well.

Bro was there when i was visiting.

They might move him to a therapy hospital to help with his walking.
Hope he recovers well Burt.
 
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Any private firm would have a top down approach to all it's branches. For example each Costa branch does not have it's own individual menu. It is a standard across all of them. Makes sense for the NHS to do the same.
i agree that i don't like mental health services in my area been a low priority because theres this mencap women high up who makes the issue learning difficulties, phoned help the aged said i had a mental disability the reply was a cognitive disability thats learning difficulty talk and i pride myself on intelligence
 
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I am buying my dad some new clothes for when he leaves the hospital:

1. Two polo shirts
2. Jogging bottoms (for comfort)
3. A pair of sunglasses :D
4. A blazer??

What do you think?

Looks badass.
 
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I think I will go to the shops after work tomorrow and see what I can find. The stuff I had in my basket would be delivered next week sometime, probably when I am at work, so better just to get in store.
 
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I am also going to pick up a new pair of sneakers for him too.

I will get him a pair of summer loafers :D

I will bring the underwear with me to work.
 
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I saw dad today. I went shopping and bought all the clothes:

1. Short sleeved shirt
2. Summer linen slacks
3. Canvas slip ons
4. A light blue blazer.
5. A pair of sunglasses

I got them all for bargain prices. :D
 
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I saw dad today. I went shopping and bought all the clothes:

1. Short sleeved shirt
2. Summer linen slacks
3. Canvas slip ons
4. A light blue blazer.
5. A pair of sunglasses

I got them all for bargain prices. :D
That's very nice of you :)
 
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Thanks, I am a bit upset by it all. He was walking well today tho. That is a good sign.

Thanks again for your kind words :hug:
 
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It’s hard looking after someone with dementia Burt so take some time for yourself whenever you can . Your an excellent son to him:hug:
 
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He went to the doctor today, and seemingly he suspects dementia. I have suspected this for a while now.

In the space of a few months, his health has declined rapidly.

We have to get a stairlift too since he has difficulty supporting himself.

He is also incontinent.
I am so sorry about your Dad BurtTomato. You have all my support. :hug:
 
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