- Mar 9, 2012
- Tigger and Willow's house
He wants to stay at home. TBH it would be a blessed relief if he went to care home, but yeah we would have to sell the house. I would probably get a new job to be able to afford the rent. It would be hassle but not the end of the world.if he goes into a home or requires care the value of the house will be included as assets but if theres a disabled person living there the house value isn't included
With you now. I am going to get bro to organise the care. He needs to pull his weight.even staying at home any care package the assets including house value are included, one friend this social worker assessed his mother, he was all optimistic then they did a financial assessment and all the care promised had to be paid for
We have a family friend who helps out. Bro is here now, but I am not sure if he really gets it. meh. Seemingly dad did not recognise him TBH I think dad was just angry and upset with himHi Burt,
Hope they sort out your dads heart problem, it can be exhausting doing all the care.
what else did he say at my uncles 80th he said ann (thats my sister) says he's like some 19th century poet in some attic garrot room, and he can starve to death in that attic garrot room for all i'm concernedyeah same difference, but how you put it sounds more brutal
i hope he does spend more time with you and your dad, burtI think bro feels guilty now. meh. He said he is going to spend some more time here.
I am sorta hoping that will be a little better when he comes back from hospital. But if he is not, we will need carers. meh.