it's hard i think the best thing was to put mother in a home, we couldn't cope and it'd have got worse, at first she hated it and kept on about how she wanted to die but now she's more settled
i remember going to brum to help out my brother was living there but started a new job he lasted 2 weeks, my girlfriend said that time you came back from visiting your mother in brum you were lucky not to end up in hospital
I spoke to the out of hours GP and he was more chilled. He is going to send a Doctor to see my dad, and it is likely he will go to hospital. I did stress he needs help with mental health so hopefully he will get sectioned, as the mental health ward is much nicer than the shitty elderly ward he was in previously.