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LearntheEssentials

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Hey LearntheEssentials, how are you doing today ?
Im doing really good. Had a small family gathering when my nephew asked me for some advice.
He has had issues with someone for a while and he was planning on beating that person up.
I talked to him for an hour or so. I hope he takes my advice.

Also held my 1 1/2 month old nephew, he is doing some funny faces now :LOL:
 
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@LearntheEssentials
HI, you did not make me feel uncomfortable. I was just replying to a comment. I come to this page sometimes, but don't feel comfortable posting. Sorry that I wrote that on your thread. Glad that you got to spend time with your nephews. :hug: 💗
 
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That is great that you held your nephew it really is.
I hope you talked some sense into your nephew when he asked for some advice.
 
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Hi Signofthetimes, why do you feel uncomfortable in posting ?
Hi, uncomfortable to trigger anyone which triggers me Nothing to do with this thread. Just feeling lonely and unable to communicate and in small efforts , say nothing or the wrong things.
 
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I know what you mean as we have to be very careful as some could use something as a trigger.
 
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@Signofthetimes Oh okay, i did not see that you replied to a comment, im glad i was not the cause of any distress to you!
I try my best to not trigger someone while still using this thread as a sort of Journal for myself, to document when i failed or managed to stop SH.


That is great that you held your nephew it really is.
I hope you talked some sense into your nephew when he asked for some advice.
Jeah, it was tough... He is mixed and darker then most, so in a country where above 91% are white, you can imagine the things he has to hear...
Also i used the wrong word, he is my cousin, not my nephew.
English failed me a bit there :LOL:
 
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Hi Signofthetimes, why do you feel uncomfortable in posting ?
Felt rejected here before ever able to speak. Always so afraid to speak. Doesn't take much for me to hear shut up. This has nothing to do with learntheEssentials or his post. He has never made me feel that way and his post has never triggered me. I'm not feeling well. Just really agitated and ill. Thank you for always being supportive as well.
 
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Sometimes we have to think of just our selfs and talk or ask for advice, so please post and try not to worry.
 
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@Signofthetimes Im so sorry that you are having a bad time :c
If you don't feel confortable writing here in public, feel free to message me,
nothing you could say would trigger me, dont worry about that if you choose to!

I am here for you, lots of Hugs and Kisses :hug:
 
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