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It is always serious, even one bit, is serious. It is your skin, your mental health. Don't ever think it is minor, it is a sign that something is wrong, that you are not well, not doing well, and need help. You must always ask for help, preferably from professionals, samaritans, anyone but i wouldn't recommend friends or family as it is too much for them/us, i have never ever been able to cope. I often cannot cope with private messages on the forum unless i am feeling very well, i get in a panic.

Please write on the forum, keep writing, keep asking for help. One day you will not need to hurt your skin.
Thank you for writing

I will try... and hopefully it will get better.
 
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Thank you for writing

I will try... and hopefully it will get better.
It will get better. I was so at rock bottom i couldn't even imagine being alive in the next hour. If i can do it, you can. I don't know how we get there but it takes phenomenal patience, strength and self-love, self-care.

Lots of writing on a forum, people here supporting you, it is essential. Medication, strangers, good food, animals, seasons and weather, sunshine, hobbies, music and hugs. x 100000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000


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It will get better. I was so at rock bottom i couldn't even imagine being alive in the next hour. If i can do it, you can. I don't know how we get there but it takes phenomenal patience, strength and self-love, self-care.

Lots of writing on a forum, people here supporting you, it is essential. Medication, strangers, good food, animals, seasons and weather, sunshine, hobbies, music and hugs. x 100000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000


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I’m so sorry you two drifted apart. If it’s any consolation my best friend and I aren’t talking anymore either. She called me stupid for being raped, said something suicidal then blocked me. Weird of her but I called the ambulance to her house and she finally replied with “I’m fine” and blocked me again. So now we aren’t talking. We had been friends for 20 years! I guess it’s too much on those we call friends on the outs to watch us go through something like this. They sometimes forget that we are human and that life goes differently for each of us as we all have our own individual paths to our dreams. Some of us can cope with the hatred and jealousy other crumble because we just want to be loved above all.
Don‘t worry so much about what you should or should not have done. What you did got you to this point in life. You may not have made it otherwise. And perhaps she wasn’t a real good friend for you as far as what you are about to face in the future so God moved her before she became a nuisance to you. Everything is relative to the future. And yours is bright. Prepare for what’s ahead or it’ll catch you off guard and you’ll miss out on what you really should have been focused on. Lots of love.
 
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I’m so sorry you two drifted apart. If it’s any consolation my best friend and I aren’t talking anymore either. She called me stupid for being raped, said something suicidal then blocked me. Weird of her but I called the ambulance to her house and she finally replied with “I’m fine” and blocked me again. So now we aren’t talking. We had been friends for 20 years! I guess it’s too much on those we call friends on the outs to watch us go through something like this. They sometimes forget that we are human and that life goes differently for each of us as we all have our own individual paths to our dreams. Some of us can cope with the hatred and jealousy other crumble because we just want to be loved above all.
Don‘t worry so much about what you should or should not have done. What you did got you to this point in life. You may not have made it otherwise. And perhaps she wasn’t a real good friend for you as far as what you are about to face in the future so God moved her before she became a nuisance to you. Everything is relative to the future. And yours is bright. Prepare for what’s ahead or it’ll catch you off guard and you’ll miss out on what you really should have been focused on. Lots of love.
Thank you for writing.

I'm sorry to hear about what happened to you, and hope you are doing ok now.

I guess that is a way of looking at it. Thank you very much for your advice.
 
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