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He flooded a relationship advice forum I went on, with spam, using what must have been well over 100 accounts for 2 years, and he follows me around wikis, and creates videos, sometimes about me. He also makes multiple profiles on those wikis, making out he's a woman from India, or other countries, and trying to edit normally to seem like he's an ordinary member. Well, I think he gets email notifications when I edit on these acting related wikis due to putting me under his scope. Is that not illegal? I'd not been on them in ages, and suddenly when I began editing again recently, he showed up.

But... this is genuine proof that he's a strange one. Some of these videos are him playing up on things he knows about me, personally. For example, the video about the toy mouse below, is him mocking the fact that I had a video on a prior YouTube profile, showing off a captured mouse, because the description reads, "Don't let this get in your bath". The one with Sylvester Stallone getting hosed by the police is only on his channel, because he makes out people keep saying I smell bad from not showering. Weird-O-Rama! 🧐

Why would someone create clips of themselves in an obscured manner, playing around with food and kitchen utensils, and keep talking to themselves on a forum nearly each day with multiple aliases? In fact, I actually reported this guy to an ISP in New Zealand ages ago, after he ruined that other forum, and this guy is a twit. The ISP (called Spark) didn't do anything about his abuse. He also contacted a guy I met a few years ago, who directed a Christian movie I landed a bit part in, telling him I uploaded the film to YouTube. It could only have been him, since he's the only nutter that pesters me on message boards, and the pastor was complaining about it in a message I received on Facebook. This is why I have to have a quiet word with all the professionals I work with from here on out, and let them know there's a moron out there, who isn't a full shilling. They're used to that sort of hassle anyway. Then I don't bother adding anything to imdb.com until after the productions I'm in are completed.

Nobody else even cares about my whereabouts online, but I'm going to have to put my future films on a password protected site from now on, and I won't even list uncredited roles on my filmography or even mention my career on the Internet any more, since he calls me a bad actor, and I hope he gets the extensive psychiatric help that he needs. He also kept posting derogatory comments, claiming I was using my so-called retard checks to gain roles in all of the movies I've been in so far, since he speculates that genuine casting agencies don't want a guy with a criminal record on their film sets. Yet I've been in a lot of movies where I never payed a penny, and anything I did pay was just my way of thanking the crew. The criminal record part of it is to do with former support workers that I have legal issues with.

To him, I'm a crappy amateur actor, yet he has a morbid interest in what I act in nonetheless. To get rid of these parasites, you kind of have to step up your game and starve them of what they crave - and that's gratification. But, yeah. I think this guy is well and truly... nuts. It's a good thing I'm quitting forums at the end of 2019 for good. :(



 
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Draw on the fire!

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Yep. He's crazy.

Most mature adults don't act like this! :(
 
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could you report him to the sites he's doing it on try get his accounts closed down and computer ip thing blocked?
 
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You should inform the police of what hes doing as it harassment .

We are a strictly monitored forum and if you have any concerns over posts on the forum please report them
 
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He was referring to the benefits I claim for having a condition called PDD-NOS, which he has constantly labelled as being "fake autism". He also goes on and on about me committing fraud, for using my money to book escorts, and saying I deserved to go to jail because of female support workers that I used to have. They didn't want to work with me again because they thought I had developed special feelings for them, and they basically betrayed my trust. Their bosses told me after they were removed that they were still my workers, and after they got me arrested, they made out they didn't know about this. They essentially did this type of thing for months, and after I got really frustrated about it, they made out that's why they were removed. Although that's actually false. After I got remanded in jail for flipping my lid and trying unsuccessfully to get them to listen, the higher-ups even tried to weasel their way out of what they caused by saying to my mother that they didn't handle things right.

Regardless, they got me to sign away my tenancy back in 2015 while I was on bail between court hearings. The court kept on deferring the outcome for reports, and I think they were making me out to be some sort of stalker. Which I'm not. The police even found me near one of their houses, and I think they traced my mobile number. I really just wanted to make amends with them. But like I said, the manager got me to sign away my tenancy. I was asked to sign my name on a blank piece of paper, which I don't think was even legal. But anyway, that's what happened.

I was sentenced to a CPO for 18 months, where I just had to agree not to use the Internet and visit a supervisor every 2 to 4 weeks. I moved back in with my family. Because I said to this social worker that I told my female dentist what I was put through, he thought I fancied her as well, and so he told me he was going to contact the NHS. Bloody ridiculous.

I ended up contacting the former workers again, trying to offer an apology. The court remanded me in jail again in 2015, and I was sent to another prison 2 weeks later. They accused me of some outrageous things, that I won't mention here. That's why I was transferred. But the sheriff sorted it out. Then last year, I contacted them again. I got sentenced to 70 days in jail, in another town, but I had to attend court for something unrelated to those women, and I got kept in jail until December last year. This was because I said I couldn't do community service because of social anxiety, and I got a medical certificate which the sheriff didn't even give a damn about.

My own lawyer was absolutely useless. I've not been able to acquire another solicitor since. I've tried to get an appointment at an advice shop. Somebody was supposed to ring me back last week, but they never did. Anyway, the troll is aware of numerous threads about this matter on other forums. He claims I cannot act, and he said that I'm just a background actor for films I pay myself into, who no one will look at.

He was on other forums with me years ago, concerning video games, and he found out I was on a forum that ended up having the misfortune of being left with no moderators. The owner doesn't even seem to care about it anymore. It's a forum about relationship talk. He spent the last 2 years spamming it up with dozens of accounts, and replying to his own posts. He also sent people to my friend's house in Scotland, because I had his street shown in one of these videos we made, along with me looking at directions to his house. This was just intended to be part of a scene I recorded on my iPhone, but he was directing strangers to his door, where they were asking to speak with me.

And I've reported this idiot many times to administrators on other forums, and to my local police. He hangs around all these acting related wikis now, and tries to move across to other profiles and list his country as being a place he's not even located in, after I figure out it's him. I think he is subscribed to these wikis, so even guest editing notifies him when somebody interacts with the pages, because it's funny how I started editing on the wikis again after being away from them for a while, and suddenly he came back. Even I know users can do that, because I've edited pages with proxies and then I've gotten emails saying somebody made an edit.

He posted pictures of himself and his dog elsewhere over 2 years ago, and after doing some investigating, I found a Twitter profile that I believe is this guy. He denies it's him. But I'm sure it's the same dog in his main picture, and the guy that has the profile used to run a site about Capcom that I had issues with, probably 15 years ago. I even showed these pictures to my mother... and she said it was the same dog too. And there was one time I got this IP address on Wikipedia from one of his edits. It wasn't a proxy. It was an IP address for Spark, which is a company in New Zealand. But I know the guy does perhaps live (or at least he used to live in Australia), in or around Perth.

I have my own flat now, sure. But I have no support and so I'm inside a lot. I don't really like forums for video games any longer, because like I said before, a lot of fanboys that go on these websites always take my opinions too far, and try to mess things up for me.
 
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dont give the person a response in anyway they soon will get bored and move on i imagine that is annoying but you have to remember he is so screwed up he is deflecting on a kind spirit such as yourself
 
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could you report him to the sites he's doing it on try get his accounts closed down and computer ip thing blocked?
In this day and age, it's so hard to block someone permanently from forums. There's countless free proxies, and browsers such as Opera have a built-in VPN. Even so, there's ones you can install that run as an app on Firefox, so you'd be seeing the guy again minutes later in any case.

I think the only way around getting away from a creep like him, would be not to use the same forums he's on anymore. But then again, until he does something, you won't know him from Adam anyway. And I really wouldn't want him contacting any professionals I'm working with, which is why I won't be yapping about the films I'm gonna be appearing in anymore. It's not so much that he may harass my co-workers too, although he could. But he'd likely be showing them posts and stuff about my personal problems, in an attempt to persuade these people not to work with me. People that don't know me well enough as a person, may in fact run a mile if they discover I've did jail time. Yep. He really is that malicious!

While I cannot exactly 100% prove this, around the time he began following me around 2 years ago, I was supposed to be in a short film that I paid quite a bit of money to be in as an extra, and the director started to fob me off for months, and I noticed on imdb.com that it was listed as being in post-production, although I was never informed about it. The director I messaged claims he didn't know anything about that. Although I got my money refunded eventually, I wasn't in the film at all.

The stalker knows I pledge cash on websites similar to Kickstarter, which is what he meant with the retard checks comment, so I can be involved with local film productions. It's like an incentive (or "perk") for having helped the film or whatever, to go ahead. I'm sure you know what I mean. Well, I know in at least one instance, he contacted a pastor who sometimes makes Christian films with his brother. I'm not sure if the jealous troll did it while the actual film was in production, but the guy cast his sister-in-law in the movie as the main character, who comes to Scotland and doesn't understand my culture. However, he removed a lot of scenes with me in them or heavily edited them down.

For example, I was supposed to have a few lines near the start of that feature film, where I would speak to a Chinese girl because she is lost, and the girl doesn't even approach me in the final cut. When my sister and I saw the film at its initial showing in a church, I was briefly seen walking by near the girl, on a path, but then it went and began the next scene with her arriving at a flat to meet another girl. In other scenes I was in, he either cut them out completely, or you could hardly see much of me at all. My sister and I were meant to be in a scene with kids in a gym hall, only when the film was shown, we got omitted from that scene. He made out the volume was the reason so many scenes were deleted, yet a lot of scenes he shot had no actual dialogue, and were mostly filmed with the same music. Which suggests to me, he was probably lying.

Then months ago, he gave me a copy of the film, that took hours for me to upload to YouTube, and that troll had likely notified him, since he had been stalking me and was aware of me adding other videos to YouTube. The movie was deleted off of YouTube due to a copyright complaint. Then back in April, I uploaded it to Internet Archive, and the twit contacted the guy again, on Facebook. He's the only guy that even pesters me in this manner. Then the director (who has since moved away from my city to live elsewhere), started calling me a nutter in a private message. After that, I totally lost respect for that guy, and I'm even thinking of putting in a complaint. He knew I had issues, and he knows my sister has been going through a custody battle. That remark seemed highly insensitive.

I have to stand my ground more than I've been doing, to be honest. Otherwise, this will be my life until the day I die. Having autism (or something like it) doesn't make one stupid. I seem to be pretty intelligent, and my brain functions very well, and usually when I'm suspicious about others being at the ham, I turn out to be correct. Saying someone is 'at the ham' is just a figure of speech. It basically means that you know something ain't right.
 
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Yeah. Like the character in Psycho - Norman Bates. :scared:
 
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Yeah, but I don't know how to do something about a person who is overseas. It's just attention he's after anyway. We're also the only two people on those acting wikis these days, so I'd be better off just not editing on them anymore. Nobody appears to be all that interested in my career, so why edit about a topic no one is following? In this case, it's about the films I've been in. He's like an annoying wasp that keeps hovering around everywhere, and you have to find something to spray or splatter him with, but then he has crawled into a little hole somewhere.

I have however, made an appointment with an advice shop about seeking legal advice regarding the former support workers from Autism Initiatives. I don't even know how to gain another lawyer. And I am sure their advice will be very basic and not of any use. But I just know that when a lawyer believes something is set in stone court-wise, they won't bother taken on a case, since there's other clients they could be helping. They're not very good at their jobs anyway. Most of them don't say enough in court, or nothing helpful at all. And giving that all of this started years ago, it's a big sticky mess as it is.

But this impacts me massively, since I can't get certain jobs. The crap on my record won't be "spent" for a long time, and by that stage of my life, looking for work as an actor may be pointless anyway. I'd probably be in my late thirties to early forties by then, and I'm 33 currently. And to think this is all because they felt uncomfortable over some stupid nonsense. They never even sat me down for a talk or anything, and the damage is already quite extensive.

My sister would tell you: They're a bad lot. The same with social workers. She hasn't seen her eldest kid since 2013. They talk crap about people and try to stitch you up so that the sheriffs side with the opposition. She had her other kid taken away too, over 3 years ago. She only sees him supervised, but her ex is trying to get a residence order. She had her time cut down to monthly. At least social workers would be out of the picture if that happens, but it's hardly a good thing, as such. She'd still have to legally fight him, and they could come back on the scene anyway if her ex screws up somehow. These buggers always have it worked out beforehand.
 
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