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I just wanted someone who chose to be with me and support me

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Jules5

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It is nice to have a intimate friend that you can trust they are out there. Someone will come along and that will be that. I have had many relationships before I married at age 28. Sending lots of hugs and good luck and fortune in college.
 
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Peace6281

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Hi I’ve been struggling really bad for past few years. You said about a post on Facebook
( if shes happy when you break up then you were the problem) .
I have the anxiety disorder and he just didn’t know how to be with me. I feel free from leaving him. I am homeless with my 16 year old son but I needed to get out of there before it got any worse.
I’m now moving on even though it’s going to be so hard I need to do it for me.
Go to the seaside and walk along the beach.
It’s the best medicine x
 
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OCDguy

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I saw this post on facebook that said if shes happy when you break up then you were the problem.
I think it's been mentioned earlier, you shouldn''t believe everything you see on Facebook. People split up for many reasons, and relationships are a two-way thing. When people get together, they are almost certainly going to have a expectation. It probably helps if you know what that expectation is. If they have had previous relationships, find out why it didn't work out. Compatibility etc. could be other reasons, and it takes time to understand and know each other. Relationships are probably something that keeps changing, for example changing environmental problems that are beyond people's control, money, bereavement etc. Communication is always key, so that you know exactly where you stand and what thoughts are going through your partner's mind throughout the day etc.
 
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JCPraha

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Relationships are generally very difficult, to say the least. There are no easy answers. Being alone all the time is usually not so nice either. You can and likely will meet new people. Maybe this is not a good time for you to have another close relationships, since it can be quite emotionally upsetting with lots of ups and downs, as you already know.
 
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Nancourt

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yes all women are terrible because of this one experience you had
Every woman in my life has found a way to hurt me. my mother this girl, my sister, and her
 
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Every woman in my life has found a way to hurt me. my mother this girl, my sister, and her
then it seems as if you need to find a good female figure to show you that we aren't all out to hurt you, you might be unknowingly leaning towards or chasing problematic women because that's what you've been surrounded with your whole life
 
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Nancourt

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then it seems as if you need to find a good female figure to show you that we aren't all out to hurt you, you might be unknowingly leaning towards or chasing problematic women because that's what you've been surrounded with your whole life
I never approached this girl or sought her out. she came up to me. and prettty much every other girl ive ever been with, that's how it happened. i wish i never gave . her a chance
 
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Nancourt

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i can't trust anyone not even myself. life is bleak!! there really is no point to it.
 
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JCPraha

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I really don't know the answer with women. I haven't figured it out and I have lived a long time and tried many times. I am still trying. I guess the old adage, "can't live with them and can't live without them" applies. No easy answer.
 
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