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Lunar Lady

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Theres just so much more to self harm than meets the eye its so not understanded that its scary which is linked with depression on a great scale
I think the part that non SH people don't know much about is that overwhelming compulsion.

Can you describe it to me? Is there a trigger?
 
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I found her I may be to fooked to message her now but I'm gonna do my best and not chug down anymore of that Vodka she can still speak to me when I'm sober nevertheless
 
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I think the part that non SH people don't know much about is that overwhelming compulsion.

Can you describe it to me? Is there a trigger?
It can happen to anybody but I hope and prey to god that it doesn't because it is a scary living nightmare literally.
 
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I found her I may be to fooked to message her now but I'm gonna do my best and not chug down anymore of that Vodka she can still speak to me when I'm sober nevertheless
Smart lass - you actually can't become 'drunker' than you already are but you can certainly start feeling more ill.

Please hydrate Daisy - loads of water. I'm so worried about how ill you might feel in the morning. :hug:
 
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It can happen to anybody but I hope and prey to god that it doesn't because it is a scary living nightmare literally.
Does the urge to SH get unbearable? How does it feel and how do you get control, Daisy?
 
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Does the urge to SH get unbearable? How does it feel and how do you get control, Daisy?
Of course it dose I've met women who have got scares on there arms and I sometimes wonder why I dont just injure my arms instead of doing something more serious because its the urge I get and I'd prefer to self harm than do something like that... how does if feel... it feels pretty awful to the point you want to end your life. I could not bare doing that but the urges are there and even when I feel I've got through it they can come back at any time. My control is getting in contact with nature, going out expoloring wildlife, things like hearing the birds in the trees and the sounds of nature taking the time to relax and do some thinking, mine was combined with treasure hunting I felt guided by a force that spoke to me.
 
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Of course it dose I've met women who have got scares on there arms and I sometimes wonder why I dont just injur my arms instead of doing something more serious because its the urge I get and I'd prefer to self harm than do something like that... how does if feel... it feels pretty awful to the point you want to end your life. I could not bare doing that but the urges are there and even when I feel I've got through it they can come back at any time. My control is getting in contact with nature, going out expoloring wildlife, things like hearing the birds in the trees and the sounds of nature taking the time to relax and do some thinking, mine was combined with treasure hunting I felt guided by a force that spoke to me.
I'm the same about nature - not really the indoor type at all. The natural world grounds
me and makes me feel totally at peace.

What are your coping mechanisms in the evenings or overnight?
 
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I'm the same about nature - not really the indoor type at all. The natural world grounds
me and makes me feel totally at peace.

What are your coping mechanisms in the evenings or overnight?
I'm the same about nature - not really the indoor type at all. The natural world grounds
me and makes me feel totally at peace.

What are your coping mechanisms in the evenings or overnight?
Night time is the worst...

Its the day time for me, to cut it a long story short of falling into dizziness its like I battle self harm urgers to shine a light into the darkness.
 
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I hope you're not still on the Vodka sweetie....:hug:

I've just made a cup of tea and found some chocolate biscuits...
 
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Oh no you’ve made me want some now. I’ll have to go down and get something to munch on
 
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Oh no you’ve made me want some now. I’ll have to go down and get something to munch on
If you can't dunk on a Saturday night, Daff, when can you? ;)
 
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