- Dec 29, 2019
I find unexpected changes upsetting. It's not been my best Christmas: brother-in-law and his family arrived late for Christmas dinner then insisted on opening gifts which made dinner a whole hour late; boxing day my wife and I agreed to return home after lunch out, then she changed the plans without talking to me; then at the theatre later the same brother-in-law waited until I was fetching drinks in the interval and rearranged the seating (mobile chairs on flat floor) without asking me, putting me by myself directly in front of his 2&4 year old kids. I'm 6'7" and quite self-conscious about it. My partner and I have had words, and I'm starting to think that I may have a problem I should seek help with.