- Apr 5, 2021
I just recently moved into a new house 3 months ago. My next door neighbor started renovating her home extensively about a month ago. Both inside and outside and the pool. No quiet, constant trucks, jack hammers, hammering, music from the workers, workers parking in front of my house. I had to buy a baby sound machine so my dog could take naps during the day because it was so loud at my house. Very stressful. This past Thursday I was blocked in and could not get out of my drive way. I asked the workers to move, they did not. I got very upset so I went to my neighbors and we had a pretty heated discussion. I tried to talk with her the next day but she was still angry at me and told me she did not like the tone of voice I used with her and waved me off like I was a child. Anyway, my anxiety has been horrible because now I feel like I could have handled the situation better. I took out the fact the workers wouldn’t move the truck and trailer on her and now I have to live next door to her for the next 5 years until my daughter gets out of school. I haven’t slept in 3 days because I keep waking up thinking about it. What do you guys do to stop your brain from worrying so much after you’ve done something. I did apologize to her for getting so upset (the next day) (she flat out told me to my face she was not ready to talk to me) and now looking back I’m not entirely sure she knows I tried to get the workers to move the trucks and trailers from in front of my driveway before I went over to her house. However this has been going on for a month if not more with this nonsense. I just need to quit worrying and to get some sleep but I’m so stressed about going over to her house and demanding the trucks and trailer be moved from in front of my driveway. I’m not sleeping and feel sick about confronting her because I’m not like that at all but I was so mad they would not move the truck and trailer and I had to leave to go pick my daughter up from school I lost my mind! Literally!