- Oct 19, 2020
- United Kingdom
I went to a small gathering last night for my friends birthday and found out that my best friend has been talking with my kind-of-ex behind my back despite knowing how much he’s hurt me. I saw over her shoulder that she was messaging with him back and forth and the fact that she didn’t even tell me honestly really hurts. Not only that but he’s practically inserted himself into my friend group and I feel like they’d all rather hang out with him than me. I just cannot escape him no matter how hard I try because my friends insist on being all buddy-buddy with him, and I’d never tell someone who they can or can’t be friends with, but I’d like to think that true friends would be more supportive. He was brought up a few times last night and since then he’s unfollowed me on Instagram, and I know I shouldn’t care, but I’d like to know the reason why because apparently he’s been asking for me recently and now suddenly he doesn’t want to know anymore? I get the feeling that my best friend has been talking about me to him and honestly I just feel really hurt by everything. My other friend is organising his own birthday gathering but I know he’s going to be there and I just wish this guy would make his own friends and let me move on instead of just constantly being there.