I feel horrible that I have to be the daughter and my brother is superior to me!

[RussianCaliGirl]

It’s fucked up! Why was he born superior and I was born inferior?? I’m fucking jealous and truly wish he was born and also wish the same for myself.

 

[JoleneInCalifornia]

what makes you think your brother is more superior???

 

[RussianCaliGirl]

what makes you think your brother is more superior???

CAUSE HE WAS BORN MALE AND IM A BITCH ASS FEMALE!!

 

[JoleneInCalifornia]

CAUSE HE WAS BORN MALE AND IM A BITCH ASS FEMALE!!

Im a female and i have male siblings. I dont give AF what anyone else says...Im a female and I am superior and i love myself. I NEVER let anyone step over me, and I dont tolerate people disrespecting me at all. You should learn to love yourself no matter what.

 

[OmniscientNihilist]

CAUSE HE WAS BORN MALE AND IM A BITCH ASS FEMALE!!

being female is just the excuse your using to support your self hate

your self hate is hiding behind that excuse, hiding itself from you. making you hate even more

tricking you into attacking yourself in attempt to vanquish it

 

[Mr Oreo Bunny]

CAUSE HE WAS BORN MALE AND IM A BITCH ASS FEMALE!!

I agree with everyone else. Some people can be a little biased when it comes to what girls can do and what they can't, but all in all girls are strong, resilient, and know how to put up a heck of a good fight when it comes down to it. We realize that you feel this way, but by thinking of yourself as inferior, you are attacking yourself more than anyone else ever will. Try to set some goals for anything you wish, easy ones at first, and once you accomplish them, remind yourself that you are just as good as any boy. It helped me!

 

[SunnyDaze]

It’s fucked up! Why was he born superior and I was born inferior?? I’m fucking jealous and truly wish he was born and also wish the same for myself.

I was raised to believe that males are superior to females. I was also beaten by my mother(for being sexually abused) and told that it was my fault for being a girl, told that's just what they(males) do and if it happens to me it's my own fault.

Does it mean that it's true? Of course not! I may have believed it as a child but as an adult I know it's just BS. Just because you think/believe the way you do doesn't mean it's true.

It took much therapy to undo that kind of fuc*ed up brainwashing and get to a place where I actually feel good about myself and don't believe all of it. I hope you are getting help and if not I hope you do. Most of your posts are like this and I hope one day you can re-read them and recognize your cognitive distortions.

Maybe some CBT would be beneficial for you.

Cognitive-behavioral therapy aims to change our thought patterns, our conscious and unconscious beliefs, our attitudes, and, ultimately, our behavior, in order to help us face difficulties and achieve our goals

 

[RussianCaliGirl]

I agree with everyone else. Some people can be a little biased when it comes to what girls can do and what they can't, but all in all girls are strong, resilient, and know how to put up a heck of a good fight when it comes down to it. We realize that you feel this way, but by thinking of yourself as inferior, you are attacking yourself more than anyone else ever will. Try to set some goals for anything you wish, easy ones at first, and once you accomplish them, remind yourself that you are just as good as any boy. It helped me!

How can I be equal??? I have a high risk HPV and I’ll die of cervical cancer because I have a cervix. My whole reproductive system is a parasitic piece of shit.

 

[RussianCaliGirl]

I was raised to believe that males are superior to females. I was also beaten by my mother(for being sexually abused) and told that it was my fault for being a girl, told that's just what they(males) do and if it happens to me it's my own fault.

Does it mean that it's true? Of course not! I may have believed it as a child but as an adult I know it's just BS. Just because you think/believe the way you do doesn't mean it's true.

It took much therapy to undo that kind of fuc*ed up brainwashing and get to a place where I actually feel good about myself and don't believe all of it. I hope you are getting help and if not I hope you do. Most of your posts are like this and I hope one day you can re-read them and recognize your cognitive distortions.

Maybe some CBT would be beneficial for you.

I don’t see a thing women do better than men meanwhile there’s a million things men do better than women.

 

[RussianCaliGirl]

I don’t see a thing women do better than men meanwhile there’s a million things men do better than women.

Also I get to die of cervical cancer cause I have a high risk type of HPV.

 

[RussianCaliGirl]

being female is just the excuse your using to support your self hate

your self hate is hiding behind that excuse, hiding itself from you. making you hate even more

tricking you into attacking yourself in attempt to vanquish it

I have a high risk HPV and I’ll die of cervical cancer because I have a cervix which should be scraped out by a doctor in my opinion.

 

[RussianCaliGirl]

I have a high risk HPV and I’ll die of cervical cancer because I have a cervix which should be scraped out by a doctor in my opinion.

I don’t have cancer yet but I know I’ll get it I just know it!

 

[SunnyDaze]

I don’t see a thing women do better than men meanwhile there’s a million things men do better than women.

Wow. That's really sad to read.

That's exactly why I hope you're seeking help.

 

[OmniscientNihilist]

I don’t have cancer yet but I know I’ll get it I just know it!

maybe worrying does help, because at this rate the stress from worrying will kill you before you have time to get cancer lol

 

[Mr Oreo Bunny]

I don’t see a thing women do better than men meanwhile there’s a million things men do better than women.

Can men bleed for a week without dying or getting an infection?? Can men carry a child for 9 months?? True, girls have to work harder than men for some things, but that just means we are good at working for what we want.