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i don't think i can give up hurting myself

Fairy Lucretia

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and i think this might mean me and bf hermit won't last in our realtionship
he cries when i do it and that makes me feel so guilty but i need to do it to survive x
idk what to do x
 
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But if he didn't get upset when you did it there would be something seriously wrong. It means he cares about you. I don't know if you have help with your problems or not but if you don't that would be a good step. If you do have help, I feel you, it can be hard to get out of that cycle but I have had years off from it and I don't know, one day something inside of me just changed and I felt like I didn't need to do it any more (very very rarely). Sorry if this isn't helpful, I hope you're ok.
 
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I’m sorry you’re self-harming, have you tried all the dbt suggestions? Head in bucket water, holding ice, cold shower etc ?
I’m probably telling you to suck eggs ... I’m sorry !
sending you big hugs xxx
 
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