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midnightphoenix

midnightphoenix

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Mum's wanting to move and i think she has her heart set on me going up there as well, getting my own place up there in a few years time (after Tigger goes to rainbow bridge)

idea we have is Mum gets settled up there and sees what the job situation is like and if the job situation means i would get a new job fairy easily i thinking of getting a flat up there (i would not be able to afford a house up there, priced out)

on one hand it would be good for me to not have the constant reminders of all the crap thats happened over the past few years

but i dont know if its the right thing to do, i'm making a life round here and going up there would mean i have to start again
 
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k you got a few years to decide Midnights
you can write a list of the pros and cons

Willow manage without a garden ?
 
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i might be able to get a flat with a shared garden so she will still have a garden for explores

if not i can see about setting up something in the flat as a indoor garden

if i decide to move up there
 
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not sure her Meowness would take to a shared garden
she would think it was all hers !

I can see the advantages and disadvantages
of both decisions

being near Mum means there is someone to attend
to the cat or cats when your out
 
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