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Mayflower7

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Hi fairy Lu,
Please phone either your crisis team or try the Samaritans.
I'm sorry your struggling, you really wouldn't want to be in a coma.
We're here for you.
 
midnightphoenix

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no not like that
my anxiety as I don't focus on the here and now x
does it mean we are not compatible if I annoy him over something? x
:hug: nope it does not mean you both incompatable (spelling), every couple has disagreements and gets frustrated at times, its part of being in a relationship with someone, the important thing is you both feel you can talk to each other
 
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if you annoy your partner what does that mean? xx
I think every couple annoy each other over lots of things, it would be weird to me if someone told me their partner didn't annoy them at all! It doesn't mean you're not compatible, it means that even when you're annoyed you can still accept that person for who they are. Annoyances might need fixing occasionally so they don't get too big, as long as you communicate well together that's what's important :hug:
 
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I think every couple annoy each other over lots of things, it would be weird to me if someone told me their partner didn't annoy them at all! It doesn't mean you're not compatible, it means that even when you're annoyed you can still accept that person for who they are. Annoyances might need fixing occasionally so they don't get too big, as long as you communicate well together that's what's important :hug:
helps so much thanks x we always talk through things xxx
 
midnightphoenix

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awww thanks that helps so much xxx
if it helps, even my girlie Ebony and her boyfriend Tom, (who adored each other and only had eyes for each other) had a few little spats (Ebony asserting the fact that tummy was a no touch under any circumstances not even for grooming by Tom, and Tom telling Ebony lower back was a no-grooming zone cause it hurted him), they adored each other but even they had a couple of little spats so its normal :love:
 
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