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InsanityManity

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I want to die. if the opportunity came for me to die I wouldn’t fight it. I’d be happy that I would be dead.
 
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Mr Ploppy

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I want to die. if the opportunity came for me to die I wouldn’t fight it. I’d be happy that I would be dead.
But I won’t be happy.

What do you WANT?, other than death?, sex?, money?, family?, a quiet life?, fanny about on the internet all day?.

Sit down, have a think about it, get back to me.

Me, I’m a sort of Fanny about on the internet all day sort of person. Never will sex and money get in the way of fannying about on the internet.
 
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If I have to live. I wanna be rich. If I have to live I’m gonna be wealthy till I die. I don’t exactly wanna age so I’m gonna kick to bucket at 35 so I don’t grow old.
 
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If I have to live. I wanna be rich. If I have to live I’m gonna be wealthy till I die. I don’t exactly wanna age so I’m gonna kick to bucket at 35 so I don’t grow old.
I’m 49 it ain’t so bad.

Rich?, I’ve known many people who are rich, I’m an accountant (chartered accountant), or was, these people were still as miserable as hell. Seriously I’ve known many multi millions who were in many respects not in a better position than you.

Rich?, but it still doesn’t answer the question of what you WANT?, money only satisfy wants. I met one person with 15 million pounds once, when asked the question what he wants he didn’t know, seriously, well what’s the point having 15 million pounds?

My Ipbhone 6 plus is worth more than 1 million pounds to me.

Why die at 35?, imagine being 50, having a family, money, experiencing great sex, having a nice house, imagine the knowledge and experience you will then have then spending say 30 years being comfortable and fading comfortably into retirement.
 
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I don’t really have anything I want to live for. I only wanna be rich because I can buy whatever I want and I like that luxury. I don’t have anything else I’m motivated about
 
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I don’t really have anything I want to live for. I only wanna be rich because I can buy whatever I want and I like that luxury. I don’t have anything else I’m motivated about
Im exactly the same. Exactly the same. It’s depression, isn’t it?, really?.

I’ve got depression, chronic anxiety and whole host of physical problems to deal with, principally a heart attack 6 years ago.

I haven’t got the answer, might be medication, might be something like CBT.

The problem with focusing on money, and I doubt anyone on here is rich, is it only satisfys wants?, doesn’t it really, well if you can’t get motivated by anything, well money does no good. I’m a alcoholic, money is booze, that’s it. Because I can’t get motivated by anything, so buying a Porsche means nothing to me.

I would guess you’re young, you have your life ahead of you, I’m passed it, there is so much life has to offer, relationships, great sex, good food, holidays, children, a career. Just there for the taking, years of this sort of stuff possibly 50 more years.

Alternatively, you quieten life down, live simply and easily and within the confines of depression. No relationships a little flat, a straightforward job. Just be.

I haven’t got the solution. It’s a personal thing. Try Meds, try CBT, but you know I’ve been depressed all my life, untreated, it’s wrecked havoc all my life. But at least your here and recognise a problem, at least you can make an informed decision and recognise the problem. I just lurched from disaster to crisis for 30 years.
 
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