i did a bad thing

[simonr1978]

i'm stupid

does doing self harm make me a bad person?

No Midnightphoenix, you are not stupid at all and whilst I can appreciate that it's easier said than done, you really mustn't think like that.

I can also appreciate completely that what I said is easier said than done too, trust me when I say that my advice is definitely in the "Do as I say, not as I do" category.

And no, self harming doesn't make you a bad person. I may have said this before but it probably bears repeating; it's a coping mechanism. Not a healthy one admittedly, but that's basically what it is.

Again I can say all this knowing I personally will probably do so myself later this evening, rationally I know it's not going to help help anything or change anything for the better but I will likely do so none the less. From an outsider's perspective, do you think that makes me a bad person!

 

[midnightphoenix]

No Midnightphoenix, you are not stupid at all and whilst I can appreciate that it's easier said than done, you really mustn't think like that.

I can also appreciate completely that what I said is easier said than done too, trust me when I say that my advice is definitely in the "Do as I say, not as I do" category.

And no, self harming doesn't make you a bad person. I may have said this before but it probably bears repeating; it's a coping mechanism. Not a healthy one admittedly, but that's basically what it is.

Again I can say all this knowing I personally will probably do so myself later this evening, rationally I know it's not going to help help anything or change anything for the better but I will likely do so none the less. From an outsider's perspective, do you think that makes me a bad person!

your not a bad person

 

[simonr1978]

your not a bad person

Well if you don't think I am, you certainly aren't, are you? 😁

 

[midnightphoenix]

Well if you don't think I am, you certainly aren't, are you? 😁

thats different though, you dont deserve to be hurt

 

[simonr1978]

thats different though, you dont deserve to be hurt

I respectfully disagree. And in any case from what I have seen from you on here, you definitely don't.

 

[midnightphoenix]

it was still leaking a bit this morning

stopped now though but i still got it covered in case it starts again

 

[soulsearcher]

it was still leaking a bit this morning

stopped now though but i still got it covered in case it starts again

Hope you're ok

 

[midnightphoenix]

Hope you're ok

self soothing with disney

 

[soulsearcher]

self soothing with disney

Thats good anything to take your mind of it

 

[midnightphoenix]

i failed again

 

[simonr1978]

It's not a failure just because some days you're stronger than others and some days bring more stresses than usual

 

[midnightphoenix]

today's been a complete load of crap thats why this happened

nobody has had a good word to say about me

 

[SF2]

You are not a failure x you are wonderful. Sending love XX

 

[midnightphoenix]

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bad midnight

 

[midnightphoenix]

i better go to bed night wonderful peoples

and i sorry

 

[SF2]

Nothing to be sorry for xx remember you are wonderful

 

[midnightphoenix]

opened up the latest self harm

 

[iWILLOBTAINMENTALHEALTH2]

Please don't hurt yourself. Do seek emergency care.

 

[midnightphoenix]

self harm is a big stinky cabbagecowfart

i wish i never started ........

sigh

 

[midnightphoenix]

i just target the same injury each time nowadays cause i dont deserve to let it heal