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if i take it off and let the injury do what it wants will that be okay :cry:

if it wants to bleed still or if it stopped i mean :cry:

maybe i shouldnt say that idk :panic::cry::hidesbehindsofa::cry:
 
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I assume you have a cat? I don't think your cat would want you to hurt yourself :hug:
 
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Yeah think about them if it makes you feel happy.
 
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Willow's the 4 year old unrehomable one, if anything happened to me she would be the one who suffers

Playful Tigger's the 7 year old she was playing with the bandage she'd get a new home easily
 
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I doubt anyone's angry at you for your posts, there's nothing to be angry about. And you're certainly not a failure.
 
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Hey there Midnight, I’m sure Willow and Tigger don’t want anything to happen to you. I’m also certain nobody is angry with you for posting and you’re definitely not a failure!
Gentle hugs 🤗
 
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No you certainly don't. You're a good person and you deserve good things.
 
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Have you ever tried the elastic band around the wrist trick? Any time you get the urge, you pull it and it snaps on your wrist and gives a mild sting. It’s meant to give you a feeling of control back.
 
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Have you ever tried the elastic band around the wrist trick? Any time you get the urge, you pull it and it snaps on your wrist and gives a mild sting. It’s meant to give you a feeling of control back.
yeah but cause i dont target my arms its another part of my body i target that wouldnt work :sorry:

i'm sorry i know your trying to help :cry:
 
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Have you ever tried the elastic band around the wrist trick? Any time you get the urge, you pull it and it snaps on your wrist and gives a mild sting. It’s meant to give you a feeling of control back.
I normally use elastic bands like you say but it's still difficult to fight the urges
 
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Please don't think you've failed, people can and do stop self-harming.
Can any of your family support you a bit more?
Your not bad either.
 
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Please don't think you've failed, people can and do stop self-harming.
Can any of your family support you a bit more?
Your not bad either.
they dont know about me going back to self harm :sorry:

first time they found out about it they yelled at me and made it about them, not about my feelings it was about their feelings, mine are not important enough to bother with :sorry:
 
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I'm sorry your family didn't support you, some people don't know how to help.
Take care
 
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