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I deserved it

Lincoln1990

Lincoln1990

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I deserbed everything that has happened to me I didn't stop them from
Happening when I was a child i sometimes enjoyed. I'm a slut and Deserved it.

Nobody understands
 
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lovagemuffin

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no no sweetheart no you didnt:hug1:
 
SomersetScorpio

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You're right, there's no way I can possibly understand what you went through or how you feel because your experience and reactions are unique to you.
However, I do very much agree with muffin - you absolutely did not deserve anything bad to happen to you. A child is an innocent, defenceless being and whoever hurt you is truly sick.
Anybody who thinks it's easy to stop things from happening to them obviously doesn't know how it feels to be afraid.
So please believe that you are not a slut and you didn't deserve it.:hug1:
 
Lincoln1990

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I don't know. The voices tell me that I'm to blame. And that I'm a slut
 
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If you had a friend who had gone through the same thing you did, who you think they deserved it or were a slut?
 
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Dottyone

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Hi ! Lincoln I dont understand or know your past, but dont believe your voices

They lie !

Derogative Voices are often wrong !


Take Care
 
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clyde

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Don't accuse yourself, you're not a slut. Don't be so negative
 
RainbowHeartz

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it wasnt your fault at all lincoln i can assure you of that :hug:
 
RainbowHeartz

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it wasnt your fault at all lincoln i can assure you of that :hug:
i still blame me for what happened to me as a kid... but at the end of the day kids are innocent completely innocent
 
Lincoln1990

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I can't help but think that I should have been able to stop it somehow. I know they were so big and I was so little. I didn't tell anyone though.

Thank you for the replies. <3
 
RainbowHeartz

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I can't help but think that I should have been able to stop it somehow. I know they were so big and I was so little. I didn't tell anyone though.

Thank you for the replies. <3
your welcome lincoln i didnt tell anyone til i was 10 or 11 years old and it happened throughout my whole childhood... my point is its not your fault lincoln kids really are innocent
its the people who done it to yooze fault because they should have known better, its not acceptable to do these things to children
sending hugs
i do hope it helps me telling you your not alone
 
Lincoln1990

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I understand.

I'm just going through a hard Time right now :(
 
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