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I can't do anything right so what's the point

garbageg4

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I can't do right by anyone in my life. Everything I do is wrong. Everything I say is wrong. I have failed my entire life so what is the point. No one talks to me I say the wrong things so they leave and don't want to talk to me anymore. Why be here anymore.
 
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So you can work on understanding yourself and improving. It’d be very worth it :grouphug:
 
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Understanding myself is accepting I'm a failure and a loser at everything talking to people is only one small aspect of it all. I have even passed people on here away and I don't even know why or how. I have been polite and everything.
 
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No one is a total failure at everything. I sincerely believe that.

We can certainly feel that way about ourselves sometimes. Is it possible that your perception of being disliked is partially something that you’ve come to believe within yourself rather than the true situation? I do that sometimes. I know it feels really real but sometimes things really aren’t as bad as they seem to be.
 
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I don't feel it's my perception, no.
 
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Are you receiving any mental health care or support? I feel that a therapist could help you sort out what is real as well as how to improve your relationships with others.
 
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Sadyl, I know that feeling, garbageg4, all you can do is keep trying for yourself, you deserve to get better :hug:
 
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Right now I feel like giving up
 
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I’m glad you’re getting support. Don’t give up you got this
 
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I can't do right by anyone in my life. Everything I do is wrong. Everything I say is wrong. I have failed my entire life so what is the point. No one talks to me I say the wrong things so they leave and don't want to talk to me anymore. Why be here anymore.
I feel the same way about life, you're in good company. I have no friends to talk to and when or if I share with family, mostly my husband's because mine ignores me most of the time and I don't get invited to anything. My maid of honor got married 2 months after I did and she didn't ask me to stand up in hers. I don't think I did anything wrong, and her husband now is my husband's brother who we let stay with us while we planned our wedding. I wish I didn't have bridesmaids they were my husband's family 😑 and now I just feel the lack of being included makes sad and reminds me of childhood and young adulthood where and when I was mercilessly picked on for everything.
 
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Yeah, and they invite us for dinner for tomorrow 🙄 Im guessing to show off their selfritiousness and to appear charitable when were feeling shitty. Believe me, his brother shoves Jesus and spiritual ideas into our heads until we're sick with "wait, was that advice? Or a judgment made upon me by someone who just happens to be doing better?" Yes, he wouldn't be where he is without us letting him live with us for free and got him a job through a friend. Before that job, he said he doesn't wanna do anything unless God told him it was the right thing 🙄 couldn't even follow the house rule of NO DOG ON THE FURNITURE! And he drew on our walls, I caught him and his gf cuddling with the dog on the couch and the guest bed multiple times. So yeah, they are not my cup of tea because they are so very fake when it comes to true empathy.
 
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Sorry I say way too much off topic. 😑👏
 
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Understanding myself is accepting I'm a failure and a loser at everything talking to people is only one small aspect of it all. I have even passed people on here away and I don't even know why or how. I have been polite and everything.
I understand. I really do! Hang in there. Focus on something that is for you and no one else...do something that brings YOU joy.
 
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