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I can’t eat in my own house because of social anxiety

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depressed_person18

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I live with a foster family and I’ve been struggling with anxiety around them for years... one of the problems the anxiety has caused is me being unable to go downstairs to grab something to eat when other people are there. I don’t speak a word to them unless I am spoken to so that is definitely a factor that contributes to my anxiety about being seen. I am anxious about entering the room when there are already a few members of my family in there. This problem has ruined my life for years, I can’t get enough to eat and I go starving for too long.
 
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Drama_llama

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I can really relate to this. Even when it’s my family that I know really well, I won’t eat unless They’re eating as well, like at dinner/breakfast. If anyone looks at me when I’m eating it immediately puts me off my food and I’ll stop. I remember once at breakfast my aunt came to visit, I didn’t eat because she was there, she then left and someone else came to visit so I didn’t eat until dinner. I was starving that day as I hadn’t really ate the day before either. I never used to eat at school either so most days I’d just have dinner. I’m trying to get over it, as it’s not healthy to not eat. But I completely understand where your coming from.

I’m the same with entering a room with people in it as well. I was getting ready the other day, and heard lots of people In the living room. I waited 20 mins after getting ready before going down as I had to prepare myself for it. And even then my heart was racing.

I’m going to be getting help with my anxiety soon, is it possible for you do get help? I’d imagine it would make a great difference.
 
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karl7

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i have social anxiety too.....i agree with the other poster you should look in to egtting help by seeking out a psychiatrist or therapist.....youre in yhe uk so you have the nhs which is a very good service......if you seek out a psychisatrist in the public sector, you will have access to a mental health team, which would include a psychiatrist, a psychologist, a CPN (community psych nurse) and an occupational therapist.....these people can help you immensely.....by the way just to tell you seeing a psychiatrist in the public sector is alot better than paying for one privately,.....in the public sector you have the whole mental health team supporting you for free!
 
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