I am not perfect

midnightphoenix

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People expect me to be perfect and do everything but i cant do everything i'm not perfect like they all want me to be :cry:
 
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Who wants you to be perfect if this is not to much to answer... I like your saying about being an outcast. Lots of love an hugs
 
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Hi,
We can't all be perfect, just do your best is all you can do.
 
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Who wants you to be perfect if this is not to much to answer... I like your saying about being an outcast. Lots of love an hugs
its some of the lyrics from a disney song - God Help The Outcasts from Hunchback of Notre Dame

seems people in real life want me to be perfect and expect it of me :cry:
 
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i'm responsible for my brother i got to be the one to make sure he does everything cause they said so :cry:
Who says?
Sounds like a lot of responsibility Midnight. Are you getting any help with this? :hug:
 
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Hugs Midnight, I’m in a similar situation. In order to gain my biological family’s love, I must be seen as perfect and set impossibly high benchmarks for me to succeed.
For the most part I consider myself okay despite this and the fact I’m falling way below their expectations. I live with the adage my old therapist taught me “blessed are those without expectation for they are never disappointed”... something I figure my family could learn.
 
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Just leaving you a hug.
 
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Nobody is perfect dont worry
 
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Deep down at the core of our being we are all perfect we just don't see it because we believe our thoughts and feelings are our real selves. :)
 
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Deep down at the core of our being we are all perfect we just don't see it because we believe our thoughts and feelings are our real selves. :)
I like this. Do you follow Buddhist teaching?
 
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@EstherRose94, Yes, I've meditated and studied Buddhism for around eight years now.
 
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