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Hello AlmostDone, welcome to the forum hope you can settle in as it is very helpful place to be and talk safely.
 
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I am hoping to make some sense of my life before I leave it behind. I've gotten over many heartaches except one that happened over 20 years ago and can't seem to shake. It's become an obsession and I really can't live like this anymore.
 
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Hello AlmostDone, welcome to the forum.
 
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I am hoping to make some sense of my life before I leave it behind. I've gotten over many heartaches except one that happened over 20 years ago and can't seem to shake. It's become an obsession and I really can't live like this anymore.

Do you have a doctor that you might be able to try and get help from if you can maybe talk about what happened over 20 years ago. If not then keep posting in the forum and I'm sure some members might relate to it and try to help.
 
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No dr. that really helps, they just prescribed meds which I've taken for about 25 years.
 
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Welcome, Almostdone. I am a person who hangs onto heartbreak too. Why do we do it when others seem to bounce back so quickly? I don’t know why. Just know that there is no shame in your very real feelings. Have you been to a therapist to talk about the relationship and your feelings on it? Did it help? xo, j
 
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Yes I did for about 6 months afterward. I had 3 children at home at the time and was fearful for what might happen to them as I was their sole parent if I didn't get my act together.
 
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