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Stormcloud

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I know this may sound pathetic but I am hurt when I am not missed on here.
I see others who haven't been online and people are missing them and concerned about them. I wasn't online for awhile and not one person asked where I was.

I don't like seeking attention at all, I just feel if I disappeared then no one would be bothered.

I am actually thinking about leaving the forum if I am not wanted. I see others who have made friends here and I have tried but I think that I have failed.

Sorry for my whinging it's just the way that I feel.

I feel bad as it is.
 
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my fault for starting the thread
im a stupid twat

you are my friend though and you have my email
very few people get that x
 
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Stormcloud

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Your not stupid Lu, It isn't your fault. Oh god I am sorry if I have made you feel bad. x
 
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Your not stupid Lu, It isn't your fault. Oh god I am sorry if I have made you feel bad. x
you haven't you are entitled to convey your feelings
i think it might be to do with our bpd and rejection it would upset me too if i were not mentioned but the only reason i get mentioned is cos im constantly on here so my abscence is noticed x
 
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Stormcloud

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I always make people feel bad with my words. Maybe I should just leave I always fuck things up.

I'm just going to curl up somewhere and die.
 
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IWILLOBTAINMENTALHEALTH

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Please don't leave the forum Stormcloud. No one ever says they miss me either. When I don't go to group no one bothers to call and check on me. It hurts though I know. But you would be missed if you closed your account. :hug:
 
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Stormcloud

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Please don't leave the forum Stormcloud. No one ever says they miss me either. When I don't go to group no one bothers to call and check on me. It hurts though I know. But you would be missed if you closed your account. :hug:
Sorry FUBARLady that you practically feel the same way. You're a great person so always remember that. I think it's because we don't make ourselves well known on the forum and it is why we are not missed, but I guess some of us like to be the quiet ones. anyway take care of yourself. xx
 
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IWILLOBTAINMENTALHEALTH

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Sorry FUBARLady that you practically feel the same way. You're a great person so always remember that. I think it's because we don't make ourselves well known on the forum and it is why we are not missed, but I guess some of us like to be the quiet ones. anyway take care of yourself. xx
I just hope you don't hurt yourself. You are a good person too. And thanks. :hug:
 
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Rusalochka

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I know how you feel. I get ignored a lot on other websites when I share my art. Like on twitter, I don't have anyone who looks at my stuff. But you know what? I decided to do things for me! Not in a selfish kind of way. But in a way to show myself love. If I love to draw, I should do it because of my love for art. Not for other peoples opinions.

We're here to support each other! Please don't go! :hug1:
 
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I have the same insecurities too, Stormcloud. Pretty sure no one would notice if I disappeared. But I would like to see you stay :hug: Hope you are ok, even if you need a break from here. Take care, x
 
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Sorry you are still hurting. Hope you're ok :hug1:
 
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