How to deal with this?

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johny

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I feel like im trapped and cant change this. I got friends i dont want to see no more. I feel i got nothing relative with them no more but i just cant stop seeing them even tho im getting ignored and.. they are just people i want to get away from but in the same time i got no other friends to visit. I get angry, pissed off when im with them and next day i still call them again. I got one good friend tho with who i feel comfortable with but i just cant leave others.

Why it is like that? Can anyone help somehow?
 
Nikita

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Hi Johny,Well I would keep seeing the one good friend and stop seeing the ones you don't want to see anymore and work on what is stopping you making new friends and try to meet new people and make new friends.Don't dwell or worry about not being able to make new friends at this time try and believe you can and you will meet new people you can be friends with.
 
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hello johny sorry that you are going through this. maybe it is time to move on find new interests and along with the interests will come new friends.

you maybe have gotten into a habit with your friends as being your friends. and also as we go through life we tend to change anyway. it is good to make new friends.

if at the bottom of this is low self esteem/confidence as to why you stick to a broken pattern of staying with friends that you no longer have much in common with. maybe look at changing your self esteem/confidence.

in a sentence the reason it is like this is that you are in a rut and the anger is the frustration of this situation. so see this as a time to make some changes!! change is good in fact change is necessary at times. :goodluck:
 

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