- Jan 17, 2020
- Florida USA
Why can't you stop doing these things? Perhaps because you haven't really thought about how you are going to stop. Come up with a plan or ways to cope when you are having these urges. They reside in the mind, so the mind must be changed. You can do it. Don't worry about thoughts...worry about actions. See how long you can go without DOING certain things. Make up your mind who you want to be and strive to be that person. You'll make mistakes but keep trying and you'll get there. It's just something you'll have to take time to think about. Develop a strategy. Or alternatively, if you are a pervert then you could also embrace it as long as it doesn't get you in trouble. Nothing wrong with being a sex fiend in my opinion. Only when it interferes with your social life or could potentially land you in jail does it really matter. Just my two cents.