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How differing opinion's can affect anxiety through the balance system

Mr.NiceGuy

Mr.NiceGuy

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Opinion's form disagreement. Although you may have your own opinion the opinion's of others who enter information into your computer brain can cause anxiety or depression. Seeing people who offend you in some way, whether they look all happy and shit, or they sound annoying, or their clothes, anything about the that offends you and you may end up disagreeing all the time no matter what they're opinion about anything. Some people think that everyone disagrees with them, sometimes from bullying of voices, and they disagree with everyone no matter what the opinion is. When you come under disagreement with someone on their opinion for any reason you trade back and forth a feeling of contentment and discontentment. One can control this with a tailbone gesture of drawing an imaginary circle with the finger and can switch this feeling back and forth. Often an opinion will just dissolve into indifference as it changes or you forget what you were thinking about. The opinion of yourself and others is an open gate to your vestibular to fill you with anxiety or pain and controlling your tail wag is a step towards controlling your concurrence with people and anxiety.
 
EyeCU2

EyeCU2

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opinions are thoughts, and thoughts are just that. Why do you let what others think form how you feel? Aren't you in control of your own emotions? Apparently not. It's convenient to hold the world responsible for how you choose to react, but it's nobodies fault but your own.
 
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Altitude25

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Being mildly insecure myself I can relate to this, however I think we must be strong and courageous mentally to overcome it.
 
EyeCU2

EyeCU2

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The main reason people let other people control their emotions, is because they TAKE EVERYTHING PERSONALLY. You HAVE to learn how to stop doing that to yourself. People rarely treat you like they want to be treated, so you need to ASK them to clarify their intent before deciding they are attacking you. NEVER assume!!
 
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