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Housing Situation

BorderlineDownunder

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I should start throwing the rat bodies over the fence. Stan brings me a new one almost daily.

I read somewhere macadamia nuts are toxic to dogs, don't worry Ive thought about it but its not the dogs fault.

anyway the old **** INSTRUCTED me not to use my washing machine at an unusual hour because the pipes bang between our units (apparently, I never hear hers) so I'm just about to do a load of laundry.

5.30am.
 
BorderlineDownunder

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I just heard a single yap followed by a slap. :(

God she's hideous.
 
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sounds like she's trying to control the dogs barking
 
BorderlineDownunder

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sounds like she's trying to control the dogs barking
yes also I just had the council call and dogs are allowed to bark 240 times in a 9 hour day by law.

can you believe it.
 
BorderlineDownunder

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so last night i was getting ready for bed and i heard a disturbance next door.

i heard some low grumbling followed by a shriek, then i heard a car leave.

I think Hernextdoors brother/boyfriend might've belted her one, and today she's out there yammering away with a special visitor of the female variety so it seems to be Full Drama Gossip Action, now she's out the front no doubt sharing the horror with Heracrosstheway.

Oh the drama of it all.

i must admit if i heard what i think i heard, I'm quietly enjoying it.

he was the one who gave me a mouthful of abuse about 2 months ago. Wanker. Perfect match, in other words. Whats the bet hes back by the end of the week.

This woman wont see 70 again btw.
 
BorderlineDownunder

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so of course The Boyfriend came back and he's just spent yesterday hammering, causing me to go out and drift aimlessly around shops just to get away, then starts again this morning 9 am

I went out to see wtf he was doing and he was arsing about w *something* on their claptrap fence while looking straight into my backyard.

I just stood there and stared. He goes, Can I help You or something smart like that

then I came inside and called the housing bc no one from her address is allowed to address me at all

then I told the housing, I think hes moved in and these are 1 person units, so now I have them both going at me

I heard her read the history and go ok, right in a way that let me know he's not allowed to live there.

so then he goes silent bc hernextdoor mustve realized yet again they are going to be spoken to.

they are horrible disgusting ppl. What ever he was hammering is illegal in the Housings eyes, we aren't supposed to erect anything, and there he is hammering and staring over my fence.

to my credit: I didn't respond AT ALL just stared.
 
BorderlineDownunder

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this just keeps on going

she's got a boyfriend now who has a go as well

just now I sat here and heard them leave the house at 6am talking as loud as they could, slamming their car doors which is enough to shake the whole house

I wasn't asleep tho so it was pointless but still annoying af

I hate these 2 with every cell of my body and here it is coming up Christmas.

Happy days. FML.
 
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I'm sorry to hear about your nasty piece of work neighbour, let's hope karma bites her back on the bum and gets infected! (Evil thinking maybe?) It's a positive that your kitten is making a recovery and the vet seemed to be on your side. Fingers and toes crossed for you that your sadness lifts. I'm in an awful situation so my two bearded dragons are in boarding I miss them so much. It's nice to have some company from your fur baby. Let's hope you will have a nice fence put up soon. Sending hugs from a cold somewhat sunnyish UK. 🤗
 
BorderlineDownunder

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I cant believe it but im still having problems from this bitch.

I spoke to housing today and their contribution is to send me a pamphlet on mediation.

I asked for someone senior to contact me so we'll see what happens. I hate when they spring you on things like calling, I knew I shouldntve answered the call.

Hernextdoor has a boyfriend/brother and he's just revolting, over there now yapping on the phone by my fence like nothings happened.

She probably called him up and moaned and he's getting "revenge" for his Juliette, how sweet.

Cannot believe this is still going on after all these years.

I spoke to John the dickhead I splashed my wee on and he said "you're going to have to get along" so I thanked him nicely for his kindness and empathy (my arse) and said goodbye.

Ive forwarded the email to speak to someone senior but I bet that wont happen.

The funniest part : I was actually interstate on the day she made her complaint, and I have the receipts bitches!
 
BorderlineDownunder

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so much has happened but so much stays the same.

I am still battling w Centrelink who told me I must be job active to get the pension but how the fuck does that work when you cant hold a job? utter insanity.

anyway im not going to worry about it, this has been my life for nearly 10 years now.

im texting with my daughter who has moved to Sydney so im very excited for her about that. Shes also at theatre school. we are texting freely now its so lovely.

I have had so much stolen from me. even now 4 years later I am remembering stuff I once owned and now do not. For example I had a gorgeous standard lamp - gone.

so called friends moving my stuff about while thieving it.

Stanley is dead. Council found him on the road so at least I didnt have to deal w his body. My poor little man, I feel like the worst cat mother there has ever been. So much grief. I still think about Smokey too, I deserted him in that fucking cul de sac, I hope someone took him in.

too much grief, too many triggers. Im still a bit suicidal but not compelling, its only when I sink in to it

so many fights with the bitch next door, to cut a long story short I bought some chocolates and a card apologizing for my many faults and left it on the doorstep. Things have been ok ever since.

this world is too rough for me. I dont fit anywhere. Ive got some friends but I need to be right inside and im just not. Doubt I ever will be.
 
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Wow just had a read of this thread, you've been through hell and back with that neighbour. I had bad run ins with neighbours in a small apartment block I bought into. It was ok until all the druggies moved in. It was a fight I couldn't win and I just moved out. I don't get how your meant to be job active on the dsp, centerlink is bonkers. Pleased you sorted things out
 
BorderlineDownunder

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thanks Eddie

so #hernextdoor came out and slamme her car door so hard my floor shaked

so I call the housing officer and he was all, "my neighbours are bad, you should be grateful to have someone to complain to, I dont"

what an utter bag of shit.

so ive sent away one of my emails from hell to the head office. Fuck him. Im sick of this cock jokey. And fuck her, it wasnt a fortnight ago I left a card and some chocolates on her doorstep as a peace offering. Just fuck her. Evil old bat.

not being believed sucks. And bc im borderline I am shaken to my core that there is zero hope of Housing taking any action it appears.

however Housing are visiting sometime soon to check the units are ok from a safety point of view and im going to ask them for a new kitchen. Its 40 years old and well overdue.
 
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I remember a print I used to own, April someone. It fit my décor perfectly and of course its gone.
 
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Hello BorderlineDownUnder. Long time now see. You may not remember me but we used to talk on here a few years ago. I've been thinking about you. How have you been? Lemme know. It's good to have you back here. Sorry for going off topic. 🤗
 
BorderlineDownunder

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Hi Iwill! yes I remember, I havent been on for such a long time. I hope you are well?

Ive FINALLY sorted the neighbor out.

Ugly scenes but a wake up call

She called police on me (again, its been at least half a dozen times) anyway these police were very good, one went with me and one went with her (and her mates it was 4 against 1) and the policeman said, I need to know how to make you safe tonight, and I said, all I want is to be left alone, then (you wont believe this) THEY ORDERED HER OFF THE PROPERTY they made her and mates pack their bags and didnt leave until theyd gone omg I couldve kissed them!! now she cant call police again!!

anyway it was all still going, this bitch is made of some t

ough stuff, housing called me a "complainer" and I said how many complaints have I made and he goes, 13, and I said, only 13??? She gives me shit every single day and ive only complained 13 times? you should have 1000 of my complaints!


what an arsehole, this guy I tell you - another story

anyway so later that day I went and knocked on her door and said, Raeleen I wonder if you could please not slam your car doors so much, and she started

on and on about her pneumonia her night in hospital, SHE WANTED ATTENTION! all this time! my attention apparently! and she hasnt slammed her doors since which is proof she WAS slamming doors.

so the last week and a half have been bliss. :dance:
 
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