• Welcome! It’s great to see you.

    If you'd like to talk with people who know what it's like

    Our forum members are people, maybe like yourself, who experience mental health difficulties or who have had them at some point in their life.

Hi, new this this forum and seeking help

L

LegoLand

Member
Joined
Aug 31, 2020
Messages
6
Location
Berkshire
Hi, I'm new here and looking for guidance, help, support as my husband is hearing voices and believes our friends of many years are out to harm him. This has been brought about by a breakdown in our marriage as we are in the throws of divorce.
His behaviour is getting worse - attacking our friends, and more recently our friends mother. All reported to police but no action being taken.
Not sure what I can do, but feeling really helpless and afraid of what might happen next.
 
one light

one light

Well-known member
Joined
Aug 19, 2020
Messages
755
Location
England - Up North
Welcome here, this is a terrible problem, such a difficult time for all - i have put some posts on here somewhere regarding the voices problems - look up online 'how to raise human energy vibrations' this can help to ease them - and when he hears them tell him override it with words 'love' or 'light' - in his mind in thought - its not 'his' fault this is happening, its good you're helping... so to raise energy vibes simple things - less meat more veg, avoid all violence on tv and so much more advice online - i'll be back here online tomorrow...
 
F

Fairy Lucretia

ACCOUNT CLOSED
Joined
Apr 9, 2011
Messages
37,196
Location
Magical fairy wonderland xxxx
welcome to the forum i think it is really important your husband sees a doctor
the kind of thing he is experiencing can actually be quite common with the right medication and support i hope he can improve
please let us know how you get on love Lu x
 
one light

one light

Well-known member
Joined
Aug 19, 2020
Messages
755
Location
England - Up North
Of course seek medical advice urgently to assist you as well - and any advice of course is if he will listen - i think he needs some stability right soon to give him chance to correct this problem...
 
L

LegoLand

Member
Joined
Aug 31, 2020
Messages
6
Location
Berkshire
welcome to the forum i think it is really important your husband sees a doctor
the kind of thing he is experiencing can actually be quite common with the right medication and support i hope he can improve
please let us know how you get on love Lu x
Thanks for the reply. Unfortunately he won't seek help so really difficult. He doesn't see that anything is wrong. Struggling to know what to do.
 
Mayflower7

Mayflower7

Well-known member
Moderator
Joined
Jan 4, 2013
Messages
17,959
Location
England
Hi,
Welcome to the forum
I have had psychosis my mum had to go to my Gp several times to get me a mental health assessment.
I lacked insight into my illness.
Keep a diary of his behaviour etc.
Hugs
 
P

Painismybestfriend

Well-known member
Joined
Jan 8, 2020
Messages
70
Location
Leamington Spa
Really difficult issue to address, even when the person experiencing voices is onside and is aware there's a problem. Nevermind when they don't believe it themselves.

Quite often I found from personal experience of hearing voices - that I needed to see some clear and concrete evidence that suggested the opposite of these negative thoughts, coming from the people/friends that I thought were against or out to harm me.
 
Similar threads
Thread starter Title Forum Replies Date
M New to forum Introduce Yourself 14
F New to the forum - appreciate any interaction Introduce Yourself 40
L New to forum Introduce Yourself 6
L Hi, new to forum. Introduce Yourself 4
V New to Forum. Here to be a helping hand. Introduce Yourself 7
Marrex Hello Forum World! Introduce Yourself 7
HeatherHammond New to forum Introduce Yourself 7
L new to this forum Introduce Yourself 4
A New to forum Introduce Yourself 7
H Hello there forum friends :) Introduce Yourself 13
P hello everyone - new girl on forum trigger warning. Introduce Yourself 18
N New to forum. Hello Everybody Introduce Yourself 7
E First time on this kind of forum Introduce Yourself 5
W Fear of loosing my mind. Staying grounded and distracted by reading this forum. Introduce Yourself 5
Siggsy Newbie to forum. My medication has stopped working again! Introduce Yourself 10
C Hello, never joined a forum before, so away we go... Introduce Yourself 9
RadioHush hello fellow forum users :) Introduce Yourself 13
N New to the forum Introduce Yourself 5
J Hi im new to this forum Introduce Yourself 2
G Hello! New to this online forum world haha Introduce Yourself 7
M New to the forum and would like to introduce myself. Introduce Yourself 5
L Hi everyone! I am new to this forum. Introduce Yourself 18
C Not new to the forum, but still looking for answers. Introduce Yourself 4
M I’m Mona and I’m glad to be a part of the forum,,, sometimes because I’m feeling more lonely than I would like to nowadays Introduce Yourself 8
W Tough day so joined a forum! Introduce Yourself 12
M New to this forum. Introduce Yourself 4
D thank you Mental Health Forum for accepting my membership Introduce Yourself 16
C So glad to find this forum Introduce Yourself 14
H Hi Im new to the forum Introduce Yourself 5
H I'm new to the forum Introduce Yourself 4
A Hello, I am a newbie to the forum :) Introduce Yourself 4
Mimi14 New to Mental Health Forum! Introduce Yourself 7
T New to the forum Introduce Yourself 6
whatever2013_2 Looking for a New Forum Introduce Yourself 7
J First ever forum Introduce Yourself 10
firestorm Back from 2013 - Same Post as in Bipolar Forum. Just to be extra polite ;-) Introduce Yourself 3
M New to this forum hoping to understand myself Introduce Yourself 7
Sapphire Turner Hi I am new to this forum Introduce Yourself 6
CrumbledCookie Thankful for this Forum Introduce Yourself 4
C Hello there all who read the forum... Introduce Yourself 3
F New to Forum Introduce Yourself 8
L New to forum Introduce Yourself 7
dreampop82 New here at the mental health forum Introduce Yourself 3
D New to forum Introduce Yourself 6
L My first exploration of a borderline forum - please advise Introduce Yourself 1
Imperius Hi all! New here. Came from another forum. Introduce Yourself 14
A Hi. Found this forum in hopes of getting some peace of mind Introduce Yourself 2
H 35 and first forum, big step Introduce Yourself 4
I Hi, I'm New to this Forum Introduce Yourself 3
M First time on a forum help Introduce Yourself 6

Similar threads

Top