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Newdeli

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Hi.. I'm a single mom getting on with my life after being with two douche bags who for separate reasons both concluded that my head was like a perfect punching bag... The men did not know one another physically, however both consciously decided that I had no more value than the next woman. After treating me like a human punching bag, both men led me to believe I deserved the abuse. One stated if I'd hurt her feelings he'd kill me the other stated I still loved sanjay. So, both inevitably beat me for no reason and have contributed to the steady decline of my self worth and ability to see myself as "worthy of love"... Both men sucked to be with immensely.. I'm super depressed about it because prior to men I was care free in more ways and my life was better... I find myself now days tormented by the abuse and how justified both men are in their actions still disregarding me as anything of value and both abusing me emotionally to this day.... I want to not vent anymore to family and friends!. I want to get over the men!.
 
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I am very sorry to hear, that is all happend to you!

Maybe it’s good for you to look for help, someone you can talk to its always good to talk, and maybe they can help you to get over it! :)
 
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I am sorry this all happened to you, Newdeli. But there are good men out there who will treat you with the respect you deserve,
 
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to the forums! So glad that you made the tough choice to step away from these relationships that harmed you. It was difficult I’m sure. I find that one way to get over people is just to focus all of your attention on something or someone different.
The less you think about the past with these people the sooner you will be able to forget. I hope this is helpful. Lots of nice people around here. We are glad to have you here with us. xo, j
 
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