- Aug 24, 2009
Well, 16 years of being together and 4 years married. I can't take anymore. Promises of "We'll be alright" are now falling on deaf ears. No, sex since our honeymoon, a peck on the cheek/kiss hello and a hug is as close as we get etc etc aaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrghhh. I can't take it anymore. I've told him we need to talk (again) when we get home. I feel sick to my stomach. I'll cry, he'll see it as a sign of weekness if I don't he'll think I'm heartless. He'll try to convince me again to stay and that he will change (he should have been a lawyer). I can't, I just can't do it anymore. God, I love him but he really (sounds cliche) is just a great freind.