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New member
Jul 18, 2009

Just found your forum and feeling very glad that its hear.

I'm 30 and have been having a very difficult time of late so happy to find some people out there going through the same stuff.

Forgive me for putting this but I need to get it out.

My life seems to have fallen apart. I thought me and my partner were made for each other until I walked in on her cheating on me with an old friend of mine. Since then things have gone bad to worse. Eventually told my mother about being sexually abused, had a huge fight, went back to g/f to hear she wanted to be with this other person. Took an overdose. Found on bathroom floor and admitted to hospital. Went awol from work as couldn't deal with anything which has now led to me being sacked for being mentally incompetent.

G/f's new partner had me beaten up and still hasn't been arrested by the police. G/F asked to get back with me...though yay, at last somethings going right. Now have just been told that we're not back together and she still wants to see this other person.

Think I have finally reached lowest point. Can't stop crying as I get angry and I'm scared of what I'm going to do to myself. I need help but feel like I've got no one left to turn to. My life has been systematically destroyed and I don't know how to repair it...


Well-known member
Mar 11, 2009
I hope you are feeling a bit better. I know its not much now but this forum is good as others have experienced the same and you can get support and advice.
Have you seen your GP or anyone? It sounds like you need someone to help and give you support.
As for your girlfriend, she does not sound like she deserves you and im sure you can't be sacked from your job because of this.
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