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My FWB has been acting really cold towards me lately and had me blocked for a week so yesterday I impulsively went into his hang out space at a local convient store and when he saw me he immediately ignored my presence and dashed for the exit! He has not returned or answered any of my calls since im blocked on his end this makes me feel so terrible and is really affecting me mentally knowing he is just discarding me. I look my anxiety medication afterwards but has not helped one but being trapped in my head ..: Advice please
 
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FWB?

I went through this in my early twenties with a boyfriend i was crazy about. He ended things suddenly and without explanation which was the wrong thing for him to do as women need to understand all the details usually.

The point is, he just did not want to be with me anymore.

I wanted to discuss in detail what i might have done wrong and how i could fix things. I felt there must have been a misunderstanding because i like to fix things and make it right.

He clearly wasn't interested. He is now married and has 3 children. I can see years later he was absolutely not the one for me. Our views on important things were very different and his behaviour, everything about him does not match me.

I wonder what i saw in him!

Love, lust, all of those chemicals, they attach us to the man, perhaps because of some ancient reproductive trick on women to make us stay with the father of our children :) Once you have sex, it all goes a bit mad.

You need to stay away and leave the ball in his court. Don't go to his court. Don't even look as his court. He has the ball ok, and you stay in your court.
 
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...and he doesn't deserve you if he treats women like that.
 
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