- Apr 9, 2019
Chris-I feel for you. You will be tormented until you take control of the situation and you might seem to be beginning to. Decide whether you really want a future of this kind and settle in. She is not hiding her indiscretions from you and is really flaunting it in front of 'God and everybody'. She isn't showing you any respect and maybe waiting on you to do what she can't do which is a divorce. However, the mental health aspect is still there but who knows. Cut the $itch out of your life and put restraining order on her. When and if she straightens out to your satisfaction and if she has mental issues then proceed one way which is proving to you that you and the children are worth doing whatever it takes to re-enter their lives. If she is just partying and getting high then cut her off and find someone worthy and wants what you want and have to offer. Life is short and this behavior is not good. If you can deal with it then sit back and let her $hit all over you and take what crumbs of her life she is willing to give you. Trust me - her grip on will slowly fade away once you put a stop to this.