- Apr 9, 2019
- New york
Just cant believe she would abandon her kids. I know she had a tough time with them at times but to only want to see then 1 a week.
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I was thinking this very thing as soon as I read it. You have to be careful with labels. Sometimes it’s easier for people to say the person possibly has a mental illness than it is to say they have a drug misuse/abuse problem or if the person is violent (and I’m not saying this is your case but just giving an example) it’s easier to say oh he/she is just having an off day rather to say they are abusive. Unfortunately there’s a lot of moving parts in your situation and if your willing to fight for your marriage she’s going to have to want the same. I hate to sound blunt but could it just be that she’s not into your relationship anymore and just doesn’t know how to tell you?. Either way I am sorry that your going through this tough period. *HUGZ*Her behavior and her actions don't necessarily have to be a mental illness.It honestly sounds like maybe drug abuse or addiction to me.I guess I say that because I have seen it happen so many times,the drugs take over and become number one.
Even if she does have a mental illness it's not an excuse for cheating.It might make it easier in your mind but in reality it's still just an excuse.Sorry.