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I really need to talk to someone. I am struggling emotionally and find it difficult to cope
 
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Hello and welcome. :)
 
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Hello Oceanmists, welcome to the forum I hope you can settle here as everyone is so very caring and helpful.
 
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Hi oceanmists,
Welcome to the forum, hope you'll be very happy here.
Please do when you feel ready tell us a bit more.
I'm so sorry you are struggling.
 
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Hi oceanmists,
Welcome to the forum, hope you'll be very happy here.
Please do when you feel ready tell us a bit more.
I'm so sorry you are struggling.
Thank u . How does the forum work?
 
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Welcome 🙏 just keep writing on here as little or as much as you want so that we can support you
 
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Hello Oceanmists, welcome to the forum.
 
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Oceanmists

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Thank you everyone... it's such a long story... In short I am stuck between my husband and my family... My husband says horrid stuff to me... Emotional abuse some would say... But how can I throw him out of the house.. he has nowhere to go.. I cannot do that to him.. I love him so much... Because of that my family is giving me a very hard time and also saying so hurtful stuff that I cannot cope.. since my dad passed away when I was in school I have stood by my mother and siblings and helped them wherever I can till date... Yesterday it felt everything I have ever done for my husband and family doesn't count even one bit .. if I am of no use to anyone, I feel why should I even be alive...
 
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You should never have to put up with any kind of emotional abuse. Be strong, have confidence, take courage, and stand your ground. Indeed, it's easier said than done. But, you deserve better than what you are (unnecessarily) putting up with. It's time that really value yourself and see your true worth. If you don't stand up for yourself, your situation will only persist. Look after yourself, first and foremost. I'd really suggest marriage counselling, or at least counselling for yourself. Best wishes
 
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You should never have to put up with any kind of emotional abuse. Be strong, have confidence, take courage, and stand your ground. Indeed, it's easier said than done. But, you deserve better than what you are (unnecessarily) putting up with. It's time that really value yourself and see your true worth. If you don't stand up for yourself, your situation will only persist. Look after yourself, first and foremost. I'd really suggest marriage counselling, or at least counselling for yourself. Best wishes
Thank you.. i spoke to my doctor about this because it is now affecting my health.. she said she was going to refer me to some counseling but I have not heard anything so far... My husband doesn't think he has a problem so he will not agree to go for alcohol conseling or marriage counseling..
 

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