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okay i am a 19 year old gay male and ive suffered a lot of diffrent typees of intrusive thoughts from murder to sex to and violence but now i have a new one its TOCD i have never once in my life questioned my gender i have always been happy but now im doubting myself and the thoughts are making me sad i keep checking and reassuring but its making me sad any help please im scared.

Dose OCD attack the things we fear and feed of them to make them seem so trie
 
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Did you start to question your gender after a particular incident, stimulus, conversation ????? There's a lot of this on media, for example. Are you saying that you feel you have OCD because you think about this a lot ?? You may not have OCD. It's may just be that until you resolve the inner conflict, you will be "stuck" going in circles about it. Please feel free to write some more about this as the writing will help you. I hope to read your next post.

You ask if OCD attacks the things we fear and makes the fears seem true. The OCD is not separate from you. It's just your own mind. The mind tricks us into thinking our fear may be true. It's not real. You are just scaring your own self. It's a house of mirrors.
 
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What do you mean It's may just be that until you resolve the inner conflict, you will be "stuck" going in circles about it.

The thoughts won't go away i try to fight them but it makes it worse and thoughts always happen because read something or hear something then I get these thoughts
 
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If you have some gender doubts, that is the inner conflict that keeps you thinking in circles. Perhaps you can do something to erase all doubts. Do you have many gay friends you can talk to about this ??
 
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That's the thing though I've never doubted my gender ive always been happy with it whenever wanted to change still don't I'm just scared i will wake up one day and will.

People say let the thoughts happen don t right then but if I don't i feel calm which gets me question more and scared more
 
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