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Yelladan
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My boyfriend is really struggling with bipolar ... he was on meds around 6months ago and now refuses to take anything. He seems to be on constant lows right now and I don’t know the right thing to do. Everything I say or do to try and help , he seems to take the wrong way. He talks often about leaving everything behind and going away from everything he loves. He’s also more recently became violent, Not towards me, but wrecking our house . He’ll rip all the clothes out the closet and throw furniture around the house. His lows are getting worse too where he can’t find joy in anything , if one things goes wrong it’s the end of the world. He’ll lay in bed on days off work and sleep all day. I’ve tried everything I can in my power to help him I’ve begged him to let me in , but he seems to be sure he is unhelpable. when I’ve told him I’m calling for help he’s told me he will drive off before they arrive and not come back. His sex drive has also completely gone and he won’t talk about it. I’ve more recently learned this is a bipolar side affect , but it affected my self confidence a lot as I thought I was the issue.
I want desperately to get him the help he needs.
I just want to know if this has been anyone else’s experience , advice on the right and wrong things to say and what would be good for me to do for him. There’s so much more stories I have but this is just the things I’m struggling to help with right now.
I want desperately to get him the help he needs.
I just want to know if this has been anyone else’s experience , advice on the right and wrong things to say and what would be good for me to do for him. There’s so much more stories I have but this is just the things I’m struggling to help with right now.