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cant_carry_on

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I'm going to see my friend tomorrow (also my ex), I haven't seen for a while as everytime we meet up we end up in bed together and I always regret it because it makes things awkward between us but however much I say before I go that nothing is going to happen it always does.
What can I do to stop letting this happen when I go to see him?
 
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Dollit

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He is not a friend if he has sex with you. He is using you and friends don't do that. Exploitation is exploitation whichever way you look at it. If you want to stop it happening then stop going to see him in his home or allowing him in yours and meet him, if you must, at an outside venue.
 
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Topaz

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I'd have to agree with the above, if you know it's likely (almost definately) to happen and it later causes problems, wouldn't it be best to avoid putting yourself in that situation?
 
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