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justsomeone00
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hi everyone,
Ive never done anything like this before but i feel the time is right to reach out.
I have been with my wife for 8 years (married for 4). at the start things were brilliant she was best friend and we did everything together. it all changed when i moved into a new career. i spent 4 years working on public transport (buses) my personality completely changed. i was such a laid back person and happy always positive. this changed to being mood constantly always falling asleep when watching tv. i have since moved on from that job and a year down the line i still feel im the same person to a degree . my wife and i are having issues at the moment especially with lockdown i find it hard to take a interest in her and her work. she feels like i dont love her anymore and if theres something she wants to tell me shes frightened that ill have a go at her if she says it wrong. i love my wife more than anything and i want to make her happy, outside of the house im myself and can deal with anything but inside its like my personality completely changes. it seems to getting worse more than anything and if continues i know its the end of the marriage. thanks for taking the time to read and please any helpful suggestions would be really appreciated.
Ive never done anything like this before but i feel the time is right to reach out.
I have been with my wife for 8 years (married for 4). at the start things were brilliant she was best friend and we did everything together. it all changed when i moved into a new career. i spent 4 years working on public transport (buses) my personality completely changed. i was such a laid back person and happy always positive. this changed to being mood constantly always falling asleep when watching tv. i have since moved on from that job and a year down the line i still feel im the same person to a degree . my wife and i are having issues at the moment especially with lockdown i find it hard to take a interest in her and her work. she feels like i dont love her anymore and if theres something she wants to tell me shes frightened that ill have a go at her if she says it wrong. i love my wife more than anything and i want to make her happy, outside of the house im myself and can deal with anything but inside its like my personality completely changes. it seems to getting worse more than anything and if continues i know its the end of the marriage. thanks for taking the time to read and please any helpful suggestions would be really appreciated.