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Eugh men who ghost women are despicable. But I truly believe in Karma. He will get his comeuppance one way or another. Have a great time and when you feel low, remember that other girl could be ghosted by him at anytime and thats her worry not yours!
I will try and get as much as I can from this whole situation, thank you. I have actually been thinking about the girl and how hurt she's going to be once he finds someone else to devote all his attention to. I was definitely not the first one and it is pretty unlikely that I'm the last one. You're right, though, that's not my worry. Thank you :)
 
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Welcome to the forum! First, I wanna say I'm really so sorry to hear that you were treated that way by someone you thought you could trust. But I also wanna say I think you're an incredibly strong person for deciding to go anyway and see if you can have fun there even without meeting him. I sincerely hope you have a great time anyway.

I also want to say, judging from some of your responses to other people who suffered from similar situations, that you seem like a very empathic and kind person. I really hope you find this forum useful and have fun contributing here because I think you'd be able to make a lot of people feel at least a little bit better with your thoughtful replies.

Thank you so much! For the support AND for the kind words. People tend to confide in me a lot, I guess I just have 'one of those faces' or something. For years it was really hard for me to talk about my issues with anyone, but I've eventually kind of find my way, thanks to having heard so many people opening their hearts.

I am definitely planning to contribute to the forum as much as I can. I have to say I'm stunned by the fact that there actually is a safe place full of support and love on the internet. I didn't think that was possible :)
 
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Hey again!

I'm really glad that you're not staying with this guy - I was thinking what an awful situation that would be for you hence my wondering as to why you would put yourself through it....

It's a very brave step you're taking, going yourself and just seeing every day how things work out for you... I think it's brilliant that you are going to take a risk outside your comfort zone...

I bet you it will be empowering... You sound determined to make it work out and that in itself will take you a long part of the way :hug:
Thank you for the support, I really appreciate it. I'm leaving tomorrow, my anxiety levels are going insane, but I'm ready to power through and have the time of my life. Or a good time. Or just time, it doesn't really matter :)
 
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Thank you for the support, I really appreciate it. I'm leaving tomorrow, my anxiety levels are going insane, but I'm ready to power through and have the time of my life. Or a good time. Or just time, it doesn't really matter :)
I hope it goes well and you have a great time!

Do you have anything planned for your time there or are you just seeing what each day brings?

Enjoy yourself, be safe and let us know how it goes :)
 
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Best of luck with your trip tomorrow!

I hope it will exceed all your expectations :)

You sound up for giving everything a chance - fair play to you!

Looking forward to hearing how you get on :hug:
 
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I hope it goes well and you have a great time!

Do you have anything planned for your time there or are you just seeing what each day brings?

Enjoy yourself, be safe and let us know how it goes :)
I have a list of places I would like to see, but I wouldn’t call this a plan at all. I’m just gonna go with the flow and see what comes my way. My intention is to do whatever I feel like doing at every moment. This is not like me at all, I usually really need to plan everything in meticulous detail. I’m sure I’ll have a lot of fun and I will definitely ramble on about the experience on this forum afterwards :)
 
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Hello again, guys :)

I decided to let you all know how my trip has been so far. I’m genuinely having a great time. I’ve met some seriously awesome people at the airport/at the hostel/during the walking tours and I let myself be unshy for once in my life. I went with the flow and therefore found myself in quite a few crazy situations. The good kind of crazy, you know. Eventually, a good friend of mine decided to come and join me for the weekend, as she needed to get away from her job for a bit. And that was absolutely great as well. I have two days left, in which I only plan to relax, sleep and eat.

It’s not always easy. I came here for the romance of a lifetime, so yes, unfortunately, this has been at the back of my mind the whole time. I feel hurt, lonely, anxious and redundant at times, but it is manageable. Also, I’ve finally got to see what kind of person he is and now I know I have no desire to have someone like this in my life. It’s going to take some time to get over this whole thing and to heal but I know I will get better.


Now the anxieties about the flight back are starting to kick in, but it’s all going to be okay, I won’t get lost.

Thank you for all the support, you are all amazing.
 
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Hi Again

Well done you!

Sounds like you're having a brilliant holiday and have turned the whole 'negative' situation into something very positive.

Really glad it's working out so well for you.

Try not worry about the flight home if you can.. it's apparently the safest form of travel! Maybe you could get rescue remedy or something like that before the flight to help with your anxiety..

Enjoy your last couple of days :)
 
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It's so good to hear you're enjoying yourself, especially with your friend joining you!

I hope you enjoy your last couple of days there, and try not to worry too much about the flight back :)
 
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