- Apr 22, 2021
- In my head.
Hello all.. My sister and I have never really gotten along. She's 3 years older and has always seemed to take the path most convenient for her "right now". After 12 years living with my mother (with her son who also has challenges and isn't properly cared for or held accountable), I invited them to move here about 2.5 years ago. The deal was she was to work towards her independence from day 1. From working on their mental health to moving out. But now I am dealing with the same lack of motivation. She won't seek mental health help for herself. She has a job, but isn't trying to move out. She spends her weekends at our enabling mother's, who refuses to see it as enabling. I know what I need to do, but doesn't make it any easier.