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June Thaw

June Thaw

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Me and My girlfriend had an argument 3 weeks ago and she said she need a break so I let her be but it has been three weeks and there is no contact from her. We are having LDRS and I tried my best to make her happy via text, pH call and video chat. I was available for her 24/7, is that what makes me look uncool and desperate? Is that what makes her turn off? I had messed up relationships before and I thought she was the one but here I am being dumped.
 
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I suppose LDRS , suspicious are easily aroused
people gossip and stuff
can you think of anything you might have said or done
that has caused her to take a step back ?

:welcome:🎼💜
 
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:welcome: to the forum. That is awful for you. How do you feel right now? You will find people here who are willing to support you.
 
June Thaw

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I suppose LDRS , suspicious are easily aroused
people gossip and stuff
can you think of anything you might have said or done
that has caused her to take a step back ?

:welcome:🎼💜
Yes.. I mentioned something about her ex that she doesn't care me as much as u did to him.
 
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Three weeks without contact over one remark because you were feeling hurt seems a little harsh... Rather than beat yourself up over it, is there some social contacts you can mix with to take your mind off things. That and studies etc.
 
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Yes.. I mentioned something about her ex that she doesn't care me as much as u did to him
I dont think you know that yet,
something might have happened to her

:hug:
 
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