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HELLO EVERYONE FEELING SO LOW AND VERY CONFUSED IT DRIVING ME CRAZY 🤪

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So confused i split with my kids dad 4 weeks ago, im tg o concentrate on my kids and myself and move on in the meantime hes acting like hes trying to get my attention again? Any thurts tia
 
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Sorry to hear that you are struggling today. Depression is never easy and its often worse when against the backdrop of mental health, you have to struggle with personal misfortune and loss. But it gets better. 2 years ago, I had an unhappy relationship which did not end well, lost my money, dropped out of uni (therby loosing my education) and lost my mind. And with all that, I lost all hope for a better tomorow. But eventually, I went to see a psychiatrist about my mental health, got treatment, got better and am now getting back on my feet. I'm determined to get back most of what I lost. I know it will take a long time, but I won't rest until the work is done.

I wish you all the best and hope that in time you will not only get better, but will become stronger than ever before.
 
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Omg im so sorry to here that i wish you all the best too sincerely x im trying so hard to be strong especially as i have 3 children to think about first and i dont want them ever seeing my self harm or even how low i can get x thank you for your reply x
 
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Omg im so sorry to here that i wish you all the best too sincerely x im trying so hard to be strong especially as i have 3 children to think about first and i dont want them ever seeing my self harm or even how low i can get x thank you for your reply x
Thanks, I'm doing a lot better and am on the right path now.
Must be difficult to be a single mother struggling with depression. Although I'm young and don't have kids, I know what its like to feel guilty of demonstrating your illness in front of your family. You don't want them to see you in a state of sufferring or weak and unable to face your responsibilties to them and feel that you have to hide it from them. But you shouldn't be ashamed, you are who you are. If you don't feel like you can cope right now is there any chance of the kids staying with their father for a while, or if that's not possible or not a good idea then maybe their grandparents can take them? You sound like you need some down time right now.
 
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Yeah its defo worst feeling in the world luckly i can hide it well itsthem tat keeping me going their dad cant cope with them and its cause of him im feeling like this im trying soo hard to show him i dont care its so hard to love someone so much when they hurt ya for so long luckly not in a violent way x
 
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Yeah its defo worst feeling in the world luckly i can hide it well itsthem tat keeping me going their dad cant cope with them and its cause of him im feeling like this im trying soo hard to show him i dont care its so hard to love someone so much when they hurt ya for so long luckly not in a violent way x
Stay strong in your convictions but never hide how you feel. Keeping it all in is only going to make it worse. Find someone you can trust in your life to confide in; a good friend, a sibling/cousin, a parent maybe. I know that your children make you strong but remember you won't be able to help them if you feel too unwell yourself. For their sake, you need to get better. Have you contacted your doctor/psychiatrist/therapist about these problems that you have been having? Are you getting therapy/receiving medication?
 
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Yeah its defo worst feeling in the world luckly i can hide it well itsthem tat keeping me going their dad cant cope with them and its cause of him im feeling like this im trying soo hard to show him i dont care its so hard to love someone so much when they hurt ya for so long luckly not in a violent way x

He's trying to get your attention? Tell him to go play games in an arcade. Cause of him you're feeling like this? Now I see the problem.
 
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Stay strong in your convictions but never hide how you feel. Keeping it all in is only going to make it worse. Find someone you can trust in your life to confide in; a good friend, a sibling/cousin, a parent maybe. I know that your children make you strong but remember you won't be able to help them if you feel too unwell yourself. For their sake, you need to get better. Have you contacted your doctor/psychiatrist/therapist about these problems that you have been having? Are you getting therapy/receiving medication?
Yeah im just waiting for my appointment so fingers crossed 🤞 wont be too long thank you.
 
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He's trying to get your attention? Tell him to go play games in an arcade. Cause of him you're feeling like this? Now I see the problem.
Hes acting like he did before always acting really cheerful and making me laugh and trying to make me jealous but i only split with him cause he was talking to a Canadian girl from a porn site and he has been infacuated with her and pushing me away so i gave him what he wanted by telling him i cant be with someone that cant love me, and now acting like this around me after i start talking to soneone and being happy.
 
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It sounds like he can't make up his mind what he wants. He doesn't sound ready for a committed relationship.
 
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Hi shy guy
Yeah it defo seems that way.
 

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