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Hating, loving people

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Orphanannie89

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My feelings towards people are all over the place. When I hate them I want to grab their shoulders and dig my nails in and scream right in their faces. When I love them I hate myself and want to do the same to myself.
 
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Candle123

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Hey,

have you asked yourself where these feelings can come from?

Sometimes I hate everyone too. I just try to fix and speak to them. When it is not helping I try to avoid them and try to find something that makes me forget about them and happy.

When you have the moment where you love them try to love yourself too, at least forgive yourself for these feelings and thoughts.

Good luck!
 
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Orphanannie89

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The hate for them is more frequent than the love. They can say it do one nice thing and I love them but it soon changes.

It's difficult when it's a family member who I find so patronizing but my husband tells me they worry about me when they ask him how I am but I dont believe it when i witness them being a total arse.
 
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Candle123

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Is it possible for you to change your circle and make new friends? Apparently, new family is not possible, but you do not need fake people who are pretending to love or care about you.
 
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Orphanannie89

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I have explained to my husband that I need to keep my distance until I am stronger to deal with these feelings.
 
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