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Hard to talk to people

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I think I can be so talkative to my siblings and people Im really really comfortable with but with most people even though we're friends or I've known them for the longest time, I feel really shy, I always ask myself if they hate me or things like that. I shift from friend group to friend group because one small response or look would bother me so much into thinking that they hate me. It's so hard to build a relationship when Im too shy with people. I used to be confident, talkative and had many friends but now i get so embarrass so easily.
 
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hiya im exactly the same-i actually say to my aunt 'please try not to have a facial expression when i talk to you'
because i read something into every little look and expression people give and i often get it wrong
i actually find it easier to talk on the phone and internet than in person

welcome to the forum x Lu x
 
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What happened do you think that caused you to go from being confident to being shy and easily embarrassed?
 
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