- Feb 26, 2009
- England, Midlands
My gran died a few days ago of old age. However we havent seen her for over 7 years. She lives in India, we live in England. We wanted to see her but we couldnt because of money issues and other things in life that pre-occupy us. However 7 years of procastination and shes gone. I'm ok, a little upset. However, my mother was close to her. She is now mourning and is very depressed + guilty of the fact she didint see her one last time before she died. I'm worried that this guilt isnt going to go away. What should I do to help her? All I can do is cuddle her when she cries, I just dont know what else to do!