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soulsearcher

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soulsearcher is wonderful, i'm sorry your mum was so cruel to you, you are NOT a mistake, you deserve everything amazing :hug:
i am a mistake, my own mum genuinely confirmed it

i understand you can have accidental pregnancies even with protection for argument sake,
but she blatantly called me a mistake, so every breth i beathre is living proof i was a mistake

also how can any good come from a mistake?
 
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My heart's with you @soulsearcher. I'm so sorry you had to go through such a terrible thing.

Sometimes the people who are supposed to love us prove themselves worthless for the task.
What we can do, then, is to find somebody else worth loving, someone better.

Someone who'll love us back the way they should have.

Please keep yourself safe! :hug1:
sometimes its the closest ones that break your heart the most and break your hope, desires and dreams too, yet they say its done out of 'love'

loyalty>love
 
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You're always respectful here and it doesn't go unnoticed.

We only have so much fuel in our tank and you're using yours to deal with everything you go through so don't worry about supporting others too much, even through a little chit chat there will be people reading this who are going through more or less what you are and they will relate to what's been said here.

To anyone who's been following your story you'd probably be surprised to find out how many people you've helped and inspired just by sharing your difficulties with voices and proving it's possible to survive them. I believe everybody is a hero to somebody.
yea loads of heros on here and in real life who show real courage and guts to talk about their inner demons theyre fighting, these people are true warriors, i hope if the day comes where i feel better i become like them
 
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you deserve a hug you need to be wrapped in hugs your a lovely person just think of that flipping heck please listen to me life is full of crap we need to stick together x
yea just im sick of rejection, its like no one loves me for who i am

its like ohhh dont come with us you talk to much,
ohhh dont do this because youre like this or that and the other

its likie wtf, if my existence is so bad to these so called family members why should i even live?#

living a life of a burden.......whats the point? lets be real
 
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I also was a mistake. My mother would say, "He's not a mistake. He was a surprise." Thanks, mom.
like even if they think such things, whether they say mistake, surprised burden whatever the particular word is, why the f**k cant they just keep it to themselves?

why the need to add insult to injury and make the wound worse by telling the poo person what they really think?

dont know if its a power trip f**k knows, i dont get it
 
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yea just im sick of rejection, its like no one loves me for who i am

its like ohhh dont come with us you talk to much,
ohhh dont do this because youre like this or that and the other

its likie wtf, if my existence is so bad to these so called family members why should i even live?#

living a life of a burden.......whats the point? lets be real
There are a lot of people who care about you outside your family, you are a lovely person and a special member of the forum x
 
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I am a mistake, what's the use of doing any good if my own mother hates and despises me
I'm in the same situation as you (though I'm not in touch with my parents at all) and I can tell you that it's much more important how you think about yourself than your mum's opinion about you.
Most women can give birth to a child but it takes a real mother to love their child and to want the best for them.

Your mum says that you're a mistake. Well, say that falling pregnant with you wasn't planned (was a mistake, if you like) that still doesn't make you a mistake.
Your mum sounds cruel and toxic and I wonder why she felt the need to hurt you like that?
 
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@soulsearcher Here's a fantastic book that will help you make sense of her and her behaviour. It's called:
Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents. - Lindsay C Gibson

It will make you realize that the problem is not you, it's her. She likes you to think that you are but that's because she's either cruel or emotionally immature.

It was a revelation to read the book, speaking for myself, and I hope that it can do the same for you. :flowers:
 
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God please help me.......I have nobody

My mother called me a mistake

Death can't come any sooner
As Datura said, “God does not make mistakes!”
I’m so sorry for what your mom has told you.
I,too, said something to my son that deeply hurt him. It was so terrible that he did not speak to me for 9 months. But I was experiencing a serious mental illness at the time.

No mother in her right mind will tell her child that he’s a mistake. I won’t be surprised if your mom is also suffering from some kind of a mental illness that she’s not even aware of.
With God’s help, you can forgive her and find peace.This is the only way you can set yourself free from this emotional pain.
You are not defined by what anyone tells you. You have your own purpose.
Take care of yourself!
 
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As Datura said, “God does not make mistakes!”
I’m so sorry for what your mom has told you.
I,too, said something to my son that deeply hurt him. It was so terrible that he did not speak to me for 9 months. But I was experiencing a serious mental illness at the time.

No mother in her right mind will tell her child that he’s a mistake. I won’t be surprised if your mom is also suffering from some kind of a mental illness that she’s not even aware of.
With God’s help, you can forgive her and find peace.This is the only way you can set yourself free from this emotional pain.
You are not defined by what anyone tells you. You have your own purpose.
Take care of yourself!
Thank you for sharing that..
 
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There are a lot of people who care about you outside your family, you are a lovely person and a special member of the forum x
Thanks bro, I appreciate it that

Hate feeling like this, just want it to end tbh
 
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