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soulsearcher

soulsearcher

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God please help me.......I have nobody

My mother called me a mistake

Death can't come any sooner
 
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Please, don't think that there is nobody there for you. Did you mother say that in anger? She shouldn't have but my mother has said such things to me but I have learned over time to take it with a grain of salt.
 
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You're not a mistake. Some of us others have nobody either. You're not alone.
 
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Don't let your mother's opinion affect your self worth @soulsearcher. I know it's easier said than done because our parents are supposed to love and support us and we want them to love and accept us for who we are, despite of how they're treating us or what they're saying to us. Out of anyone on earth, they should be the ones having our back.
I know, because I was also a mistake.

I don't know why your mother said that and what tone of voice she was using but I truly believe that whoever is born, is here for a reason. And so are you. You are not a mistake. You're meant to be here.:flowers:
 
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@soulsearcher God doesn't make mistakes. I'm sorry your mother said something so cruel to you. You are not alone. As Pennybrite said, some of have nobody either. Maybe we can be be nobodies together? Often it helps me just to know I am not the only one. I hope you are okay.
 
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She must be a very miserable, unhappy person to talk to you like that and I wouldn't listen to anything she says.
 
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God please help me.......I have nobody

My mother called me a mistake

Death can't come any sooner
My mother called me a mistake too multiple times (usually when drunk), now that she's dead, I want to forgive her, it is so difficult though... 😔
 
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They say God helps those who help themselves, so what are you going to do to help yourself that includes you living?

You know whatever you do (excluding ending your own life) you'll have our full support.

I wish I could be there with you to be your friend when things get tough but I'm stuck behind a keyboard and what I can do is limited which is the hardest part of being a member of this forum.
 
soulsearcher

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Please, don't think that there is nobody there for you. Did you mother say that in anger? She shouldn't have but my mother has said such things to me but I have learned over time to take it with a grain of salt.
My mother cares about no one but herself,
I am a burden to her, she hates my guts and she try to act like she cares just to show the whole world that
 
soulsearcher

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You're not a mistake. Some of us others have nobody either. You're not alone.
I am a mistake, it's true my mother was breast feeding my sister and didn't plan me and didn't even know she was pregnant, I swear she even said I was a mistake
 
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God please help me.......I have nobody

My mother called me a mistake

Death can't come any sooner
Lets put it this way @soulsearcher
Would you ever say that to your own children? No? Then the problem is hers and hers alone. Anyone who talks to their kids like that doesn’t deserve the time of day in my opinion. I am sorry you’re hurting, I hope this helps and I hope you can find some comfort in seeing the support you have here in the forum
 
soulsearcher

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Don't let your mother's opinion affect your self worth @soulsearcher. I know it's easier said than done because our parents are supposed to love and support us and we want them to love and accept us for who we are, despite of how they're treating us or what they're saying to us. Out of anyone on earth, they should be the ones having our back.
I know, because I was also a mistake.

I don't know why your mother said that and what tone of voice she was using but I truly believe that whoever is born, is here for a reason. And so are you. You are not a mistake. You're meant to be here.:flowers:
I am a mistake, what's the use of doing any good if my own mother hates and despises me
 
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